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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Cousin issues. Should I just leave her alone, because she is family? Or reach out to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3440 days ago

21 July 2015 (F)

age 26-29 - Ok so my cousin and I are on very bad terms right now. We are both females. To make a very long story short, I invited her over my house that night so that we can have a little sleep over or whatever. But someone facetimed me and while I was on ft she kept buggin me. And... (335 words)

I have self confidence issues. Why wouldn't my boyfriend defend me when nasty remarks were said?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3439 days ago

21 July 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I have almost zero confidence when it comes to my body. I'm a size 16, and due to being bullied as a child due to my weight I have never had any confidence with guys. I have had boyfriends in the past, but I had been single for nearly two years when I met my boyfriend of 4 m... (347 words)

I am 14 and am feeling a lot of stress with school expectations, family upheaval and boyfriend issues. Can you help me get through all this, please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3440 days ago

21 July 2015 (F)

age 22-25 - okay so in my family, my twin brother and I live with our cousins and they have guardianship over my twin brother and I. Just recently they have decided to relinquish that custodianship of my twin brother, but not me. It's because my brother is a little hellion, and he want... (268 words)

He says it's not him. Yet the swinger's site show he's a member. What can I do? I don't want to lose our relationship.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3439 days ago

21 July 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone, I really need some advice! Me and my partner have been together for 5.5 years, we were childhood sweethearts and got together at 16! Our relationship has always been good, we are both very laid back and therefore we don't tend to argue very much or if we d... (1042 words)

Is it healthy to keeps talking to your ex when your breakup is fresh?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3439 days ago

21 July 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my ex boyfriend 2 days ago but we've been talking ever since like we're still dating. I ended things because of who I became dating him(I was sad and not my self). I know it's hard for him and he probably thinks am joking as this would be our 100th breakup. ... (164 words)

Does anyone believe it is possible to love two people at the same time?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3440 days ago

21 July 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - I am not exactly young or naive, but does anyone believe it is possible to love two people at the same time? I don't understand why so many peole think it is impossible to truly love to people when you can love more than one child, more than one parent, etc. Why is it that if ... (69 words)

Do I leave or stay? We keep almost breaking up, then seconds later we miss each other

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3441 days ago

21 July 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend started to like someone else and he told me and I've been so hurt and the question is so we stay together? But there's more... We keep almost breaking up then seconds later we tell each other we miss each other. He loves me and he's stopped with the other girl. T... (169 words)

We broke up. Why is he so keen on me talking to him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3440 days ago

21 July 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - He knew he wanted to break up with me but requested a break. I ended up breaking up with him and he did not put up a fight. This was in may. He keeps coming back and at first I just said I do not want to be friends. I do not want to talk. Leave me alone. I've been st... (179 words)

Do I leave him....or stay? Or breakup and choose the other boy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3441 days ago

21 July 2015 (F)

I feel he's not the man I thought he was. Should I still travel to meet up with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3441 days ago

21 July 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - So I have been talking to a guy I met on a date site for 3 years now. We live over 2000 miles apart. We always tried to make plans to finally see one another in person but they never came through for one reason or another. He skyped with me once and he never saw me on camera ... (699 words)

How can I let go of these guilt feelings when I didn't do anything wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3441 days ago

21 July 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I was in a relationship for about a year and a half with a guy who ended up moving across the country for a job. We broke up due to the strain a long distance relationship caused on both of us. Before we were in a relationship, he felt it was his business to know how many guys... (484 words)

Do I tell my husband about what happened on my night out? Or keep it a secret? Am I being contradictory?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3438 days ago

21 July 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - This post seems a bit contradictory to be frank but I need someone to see from my point and I don’t want to be blasted for it either. I will try keep it to points and cut it down as much as I can. I rewind 10 years maybe... My husband was my then boyfriend – we got on like a... (603 words)

Now my Bf doesn't want to talk. My parents don't want me to date. Any solutions to my dating problems?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3440 days ago

21 July 2015 (F)

age 22-25 - Hi everyone, so my boyfriend and I want to hang out.. The problem is that my parents are really old fashioned and don't approve of me having a boyfriend.. So I have hide it from them and when I hang out I have to add some story to my plans to hang with my boyfriend. My pare... (263 words)

I want to date, but I feel stuck in an previous relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3441 days ago

21 July 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I was in a relationship for about 2 and a half years. We never really fought, but I never felt he was serious or dedicated. I broke up with him once for a lack of dedication (felt like I was putting in 80% while he put in 20%), got together again, then broke up again. I re... (241 words)

Should I tell him that I'm really 50? I lied on the dating website!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3406 days ago

21 July 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi Friends here I have been dating a guy for about 2 months. We see each other every week and text everyday. We originally met each other on a casual dating site...and i guess both of us do not expect that that we are so attracted to each other and so in sync. The pr... (365 words)

My relationship is making me feel unconscious, mentally foggy, and extremely unhappy

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3440 days ago

21 July 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I think my relationship is making me feel unconscious, mentally foggy, and unhappy and just out right not myself anymore. I have been with my partner for 2.5 years and things were great in the beginning. I thought we had the same vision in life about what we going to impr... (1037 words)

Do I have any future with this man? Can he be helped? A relationship without sexual love and intimacy is not something I could live with

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3436 days ago

21 July 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello there! I am a 25 year old woman dating, for 3 months, a 36 year old man who I absolutely adore. We're very much into each other. He is kind, charming, chivalrous, gentle, strong-minded....everything one could want in a man. The only issue is that, he dropped one He... (391 words)

My partner won't cum

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3356 days ago

21 July 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - Me and my partner are 43. he has problems with cumming. I have never been able to get him off with oral, hand jobs have made him cum occasionally, he will never cum with me on top during intercourse. more recently he can only cum when we have sex doggy style, and even then it ... (183 words)

Why does he want all this time alone? Am I being controlling over this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3441 days ago

21 July 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - This really bothers me. We have been going out for awhile and we spend a lot of time together. Over the last couple of weeks he seems to go more and more often out by himself to the bar. I know he needs time alone and stuff, but it is so foreign to me and makes me feel a l... (257 words)

Why can't I just do what any normal person would do and throw him out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3440 days ago

21 July 2015 (F)

age 51-59 - My partner of 5 year, we've been seeing each other for 8 years and living together for 5 starting chatting with a girl on Twitter I. February. He's 58 and she's 27. I found out by accident in March and it had already got very deep between them. I confronted him and all he c... (166 words)

How can I stop worrying about the future?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3440 days ago

21 July 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - How can I stop worrying about the future? I graduated with a 2:1 degree last November but in a subject that I don’t want to do anymore and won’t help me get a well paid job (Film). I have goals I want to achieve in the future, me and my boyfriend want to get married in our l... (300 words)

He hasn't officially asked me to be his girlfriend. Are things are on the right track?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3440 days ago

21 July 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been seeing this amazing man. He is one of the best men I've ever dated. For the two months we have been seeing each other, his intentions always seemed clear to me and I never pressured him or forced anything out of him. We've met each other's families and he invites me ... (225 words)