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Archived questions from: 27 July, 2015 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Should I be cautious? I am not sure about his Tinder past

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3434 days ago

27 July 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been chatting to a guy online and we seem quite similar in our outlook. He said he had a longterm relationship and then went on the dating app tinder and slept with 5-6 women as only wanted something casual but realised he wanted more. This stopped me in my tracks. ... (103 words)

Friendship only: How can I tell him that I want friendship and no more than that?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3433 days ago

27 July 2015 (F)

age - Hello everyone A couple of months ago I met a man. We're both in our late 50s and single. We live about 100 miles apart and have met up four times and had a great time. He always gives me big hugs hello and goodbye, and he bought me flowers the first time he visited me... (262 words)

I miss my teacher, as a friend, from High School very much and it causes me great pain. Advice needed, please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3435 days ago

27 July 2015 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been out of HS 15 yrs but I still miss my fav teacher terribly. She was the best. I have seen her a couple times since graduating. Most recently when I saw her this year, I was able to exchange cell numbers with her and get a nice picture taken with her and another one ... (756 words)

Is she trying to tell me that she is available? Or did she just want some consolation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3435 days ago

27 July 2015 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello dearcupids, 2 years back, i started chatting with a high school crush in facebook. She was 2 years junior to me. I thought she already has a bf, so i didn't flirt with her. I had normal friendly conversation. She replied to my every message, and also actively partic... (408 words)

Am I letting him down when I'm unwilling to have virtual sex with my LDR boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3435 days ago

27 July 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - My LDR boyfriend often wants virtual sex where we are on Webcam. Thing is, he doesn't do the sweet talk or sexy talk.. he just wants to see and then he masturbates and is finished within 2 minutes... while I have yet to feel anything. This is why I dislike having virtual s... (159 words)

We have a 6month old baby together. How can I tell him I don't think I love him now, without hurting him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3435 days ago

27 July 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - I am currently engaged and have a six month baby with my partner but I don't think I am in love with him anymore. I love him like a brother, we are buying a house together and I still want to live with him and raise our child, but i don't want a relationship with him. How ca... (75 words)

How come men get away with playing reverse psychology with women when they are dead wrong?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3431 days ago

27 July 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - How come men get away with playing reverse psychology with women when they are dead wrong? I snooped and found something that i really wanted answers to. If its true i will have trust issues with my husband. Well, i tried to control myself but he sensed something wrong. H... (211 words)

Three years together and my Gf has asked me to pay ($5000) towards a medical procedure she wants. What would you do if in my situation?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3430 days ago

27 July 2015 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm in a serious relationship with my girlfriend for the past 3 years. She's always been independent and has never asked me for anything. For the past couple of months however she has been thinking of getting a surgery that insurance won't help with. She asked me if I wo... (111 words)

At this rate I don't want to have sex with him. What can I do about our volatile on or off relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3435 days ago

27 July 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 30 and my boyfriend is 29. We are in an on/off relationship. He is always the one initiating the breakup when he gets upset or feel attacked/disrespected. We don't live together and we have sex about once a week more or less. We've been back together since 2 or 3 weeks. He ... (806 words)

Is this history repeating? Could my current GF be similar to my ex? What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3435 days ago

27 July 2015 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I have been together for nearly 3 years now.. we are planning a baby and to buy a house together. Sometimes we have blazing rows which out me in bad form. Last blazing row we had ... I started thinking about my ex. Just curiosity. Maybe sometimes I thin... (125 words)

How long should it take him to call me if he is interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3435 days ago

27 July 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. Your views would be appreciated. I came across a guy I met a few years ago on Facebook last night ( we met breifly at a band audition but no time to talk or meet properly) on the 'People you might know' bit. It turns out we have a mutual freind. I added him as my freind and ... (119 words)

Does anyone else feel like the black sheep in their family? If so how do you deal with it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3435 days ago

27 July 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, Does anyone else feel like the black sheep in their family? If so how do you deal with it? My family has always been close, we were all raised well and are good people. But as I have got older I am starting to feel more and more like the odd one out or just left out... (190 words)

If I don't have children now, is this my only chance? what if I regret it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3435 days ago

27 July 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey everyone, this is how I truly feel but I wonder whether anyone else has felt this way? I'm nearing mid 30's and my partner and I have been trying for 2 years to get pregnant to no avail. It's been a horrible, stressful time. The longer it went on, the more we both fel... (889 words)

Do I make a move? Or how do I give the signals that I'd like him to make a move? Does he like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3434 days ago

27 July 2015 (F)

age 30-35 - Im 20, in college, and i am 90% sure this guy likes me but i have no idea what to do. Let me preface this: I'm a shy person. Like clinically shy. Especially around guys. I always tend to either shut down or say too much around them. Or I make myself look like an idiot. I... (314 words)

My fiance disrespected my family. Should I give him a second chance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3435 days ago

27 July 2015 (F)

age 41-50 - I have cried my eyes out tonight. My fiance of 3 years disrespected me and my family. I'm in disbelief and denial. Here is the story. We are in LDR right now, sometimes the frustration is too much and mostly from his part. He has done a lot for me and us and have done all he... (199 words)

He wouldn't go public with our relationship so I ended it. Did I make the right decision?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3434 days ago

27 July 2015 (F)

age 36-40 - He says his marriage is ended and they have both moved on but he wont go public with our relationship or remove his "married to... [her name]" Facebook status. Did I do the right thing ending it after giving him the ultimatum remove the status and go public or I walk away? ... (64 words)