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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I really like someone I met recently...we've not known each other for too long...It has been around 2 months...BUT he's left the city we are currently staying in because he got a new and better job somewhere else. We always had a good time together and had a good physical chemistry as well.He had mentioned once that he can't be in a long distance relationship. He was in town recently and he met me last weekend...we spent a lot of time together and when I told him that we can't go on like this...I need some clarity...he told me that he can't handle long distance relationships..he asked me if I could shift to his city but I can't leave my job at the moment.I need the money. Plus I am not too comfortable in leaving every thing for someone I have just started to date.Anyway. As they say - set them free - so I did set him free. I don't have any expectations and nor have I tried to change his mind.I know he likes me a lot. He acts jealous if I am out with other people and messages me everyday. But he still doesn't commit.It hurts.Any advice on how to deal with this? I am moving on with my life. Am I right in not waiting for him to come along? If he really cared - he'd do something about it - right?Thanks!- Girl in distress
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (16 September 2014):
 He already broke up saying he can't have a LDR so you're off the hook.Just replay that discusion.
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