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writes:I have been in a relationship for a little over two years. At the moment he is away and working in the uk whilst I am in Germany. In this time apart I have begun to realise that I haven't been myself in this relationship. I constantly have my trust issues invalidated and this conversation where I ask him to compensate for cheating ends in me being patronised and so hurt I can't even really express myself. When he returns I think I will find it hard to hide my feelings and I want to break up. The problem is that we must catch a flight together after a day and I feel like although there is no good time do to this I should just do it when he returns and then just grit my teeth for the flight. I would really appreciate hearing what others think about this... that Kyo so much Reply to this Question
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (13 September 2014):
 Just get it done. Switch seats if need to.
I'm not really sure what you mean that you need to be compensated for him cheating?
Instead of compensation, DON'T date a cheater. IF a guy cheats he is out. YOUR BF cheated, he is out.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (13 September 2014):
 I agree your plan is solid, just call the airline and switch seats. Or better yet, try to get on another flight.
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reader, WhenCowsAttack +, writes (13 September 2014):
I think your plan is a good one. You must get this off your chest and you shouldn't have to pretend for a moment longer. Yes the flight will be uncomfortable, but you seem very mature, I'm sure you can handle it.
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