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30-35,
*implytattooed
writes:Hey guys! Just a quick question, I am in a same sex relationship, have been for 7months. My gf has a young child with an ex guy she was with for 7 years. Anyways I saw a text on her phone from her asking this ex if "she had let herself go?" Then he replied saying how beautiful she looked and then she ignored him for a while after sending a text saying she was embarrassed she sent the text and they both agreed not to mention it again. What on earth am I suppose to think? She doesn't know I saw the text, she was flicking through while leaning on me, my automatic response was to look over her shoulder, wasn't like I was snooping I don't think?! What annoys me most is that it was sent on the night after I left her, after spending 10 solid days with her?! I'm confused? I tell her she's beautiful and gorgeous and hot all the time! Do you reckon she's unhappy ?Thanks in advance
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2014): No, she's not unhappy! She wants to be sure she looks her best for you.
She's being a woman. She was having an off-moment, and may have reminisced about how she looked in the past. Her ex remembers her from earlier times, and she was looking back in retrospect. Only he could tell the difference, since he was there. She realized on her own it was inappropriate; and the problem corrected itself.
Yes, you were snooping!!! Looking over her shoulder was rude and intrusive. Your unjustified and self-inflicted insecurity is your own reward. Now she has to deal with your childishness.
Man-up and shrug it off. It's nothing!
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