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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have posted something like this before but here it goes.. I'm 20, a girl, and have been going out with my Boyf for 3 years. We recently went on holiday with his family and his cousin took a friend who is also a girl with her.. She is 29 and beautiful! I got on well with her, and I'm not sure if I was imagining it but I thought she was staring at me quite a lot, we got on quite well..I know nothing could ever happen because of my Boyf, and I would never cheat on him, but recently I can't even have sex with my Boyf as I can't get this girl out of my head even though nothing happened.. She lives over 100 miles away too. Anyways after the holiday, I had a add from her on Facebook and she liked a couple of my profile pictures, and then late on a Friday night she wrote on my wall that since the holiday she has become obsessed with a singer I like. She might just be being friendly, but I can't help think that it's more.So, a couple of weeks later we went to visit my Boyf cousin, and we all went out for drinks and this girl came. We all got drunk, went back to hers, chatting etc am my Boyf went Into the bathroom and this girl fell asleep on my arm... With her arm touching mine, it's just tiny things like this make me think...The next day we were out at a family party and this girl came up to me and said I can't go out tonight after the party as I have no way of getting there, and she really went in depth explaining to me why she's not going to be there, and she couldn't make a decision on what to do. She then went quiet and didn't say anything, it was like she wanted me to say to her I want you toCome, but I just couldn't find the words..I just can't stop thinking about her all the time, it's unfair on my Boyf but it's getting to the point where I just want to talk to her. Do I message her on Facebook.. But then what would I say without it looking wierd? I don't even know if she's into girls or not..Thanks for your advice!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2014): Break up with your boyfriend!
Then you should probably stay single for a bit, while you figure out what it really is that you want...
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