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writes:Girls, what do you think of penis'? Are you turned on by them? Do you enjoy giving blow jobs or do you do it mostly b/c you love your man and want to pleasure him? What do you enjoy most about a guy? What turns you on? Just him doing stuff to you or do you enjoy his aesthetics? Could u hook up with someone with a hot body and no feelings? How would that feel to you? I hooked up with a guy with a really hot body recently, but with NO FEELINGS AT ALL. Nothing was appealing to me. I wasn't even turned on by his nice body or penis. When I like a guy, I am turned on by someone who isn't even that fit. But this guy was so fit, nice sexy abs, gorgeous arms, y wasn't it enjoyable, why didn't i find it even a bit enticing?
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reader, Gauntlet  +, writes (6 January 2014):
 Well, that's the same in regard of men dealing with superb women. A lot of them find these creatures fantastic and admirable but... but when it comes to attraction, a nice/kind/chearful/smilling girl is far more sexy than a very super-beautiful woman. Is it a fascination and fear problem ? Fear of not being "at the same level" for instance... Is it that beauty and desire are two different path ?Anyway, let me tell you that if the direct and simple view of a penis often doesn't turn a woman on, the view of a pussy is not always aphrodisiac for men either. Face (and overall eyes and lips) is a big turn on, boobs, legs, pubic zone, but a pussy out of the blue ? Some men even fear that "stuff" and in Japan two there are traditional stories about vaginas with teeth that cut off men's penis. It tell enough about the primal scaring of women privates on some men. That's why God/nature had the wisdom to locate it in a well hidden spot.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2014): I have hooked up.with people I didn't care for. Yes I orgasmed but it was mechanic.
With my partner whom I love dearly - it is mind blowing. I do like playing with his penis with my hands and mouth because I associate it with happy memories I guess. So I do get excited by the sight of him naked.But a random photo of another man's penis would not do it for me.
His natural smell drives me wild. When I go in for a kiss and get a whiff of his scent, especially down there I instantly get all hot and bothered ;-p
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reader, KittieS  +, writes (6 January 2014):
 Penis's the funny things men are so attached too... There just not pretty. I sent a sexy picture of my boob to my BF this morning, well a nipple peaking out of some sexy lingerie... He sent me a picture back... Well it was impressive, but does it make me quiver... No.. A little maybe The man attached to it does however and I love his favourite male friend but do I want to see pictures of it not really... I'd rather a really detailed text message about what he's going to do to the body part picture I sent him... but men & women are different like that, I send a message back after receiving the picture and I get my romantic yet very racy message back - happy days..
Yes you can hook up with a good looking guy, fancy the pants of them have great sex, or more often the case gosh was that worth my effort sex, but you should always go into these things with i fancy this guy mood... If you don't just don't go getting naked with them in the first place..
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reader, Anonymous 123  +, writes (6 January 2014):
 I never found a penis attractive! I've never been turned on BY a penis...I need a good guy to do the trick for me.
I personally dont really enjoy blow jobs but I do it because my fiance loves them...and I try to enjoy it for his sake.
What do I enjoy most about a guy? It has to be the entire persona...the man has to be intelligent, smart and I should be able to communicate and connect with him without making an effort and without lowering my levels to suit his.
What turns me on? If I love the guy, then anything and everything about him could turn me on. A look, the way he talks, his fragrance, his hair, the way he puts his arms around me, the way he touches me...
Could I hook up with someone with a hot body and no feelings? Absolutely NOT. I *need* to have that chemistry and that special something with a guy to have sex with him. A hot body and a huge penis will do nothing for me if there is no emotional connection. My boyfriend is shorter than me and isnt even that fit...but the sexual connection is mind blowing. So there you have it. It's the chemistry that matters.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (5 January 2014):
 There's no way for us to know why! You can't have chemistry with everyone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2014): I do what I want to do. Depends who the person is. Like I'm single now but when I was with my ex I gave him bj's quite a lot. Even while he was sleeping just to wake him up to get some ;) I like the feeling of them getting hard just from what I do. Total control! I like shy guys. Sometimes their lack of confidence is a real turn on. I haven't hooked up with anyone I hadn't 'fancied'. Perhaps this guy just turned you off at some point. Nice abs and strong arms are not always the best.
Good luck xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2014): i always think this too! i dont find penis' at all attractive and will probably never be turned on by looking at one. i could defintley hook up with someone with a hot body and not be bothered. my ex worked out everyday and had a "hot" body but it didnt really change anything for me and i would have felt excactly the same even if he was overweight. i think its more about the person and your relationship to them that changes how you feel about then. i recentally got with someone who my friends all thought was really hot but i thought was alright and the whole time he kept asking if i found him attractive which was a huge turn off! and kind of weird tbh
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