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anonymous
writes:i'll keep things simple my girlfriend went to a new years party and did shrooms n ectasy and had sex with another guy and she told me about it. i have cheated one her before but i told her and then she cheated one me after that now she did it again.but should i be mad if i'm sleeping occasionally with my brother's ex? and she doesn't know it ? or should this relationship be put to an end?.or should i forgive her and let it go?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2014): Just switch to an open relationship. Neither of you want to be monogamous so just make it an open relationship. That way nether of you break any rules and neither of you will feel guilty. If that's not possible and you're both just hurting each other all the time by cheating then, you need to break up.
Mushrooms and ecstasy are a brilliant combination for sex, I've done it a few times. And no it doesn't impair your judgement enough to make you cheat. Alcohol is far worse in that regard.
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reader, M Proops  +, writes (5 January 2014):
A long term relationship between you two will never work out.The cheating aspects will always bubble up in arguments between you and there will be a lot of friction and mistrust as you both have "form".
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reader, Euphoric29  +, writes (5 January 2014):
Dear OP,
You don't have a right to be angry at her. You two are quite the same and at least she can blame it on the drugs this time. Mushrooms and ecstasy can really diminish your ability to make good decisions.
But that's just one detail. This is not a real relationship anyway, you both are so detached that your girl goes partying on new years eve without you. I don't know many couples who'd do that.
Agree to be friends with benefits, or call it an open relationship, at least, but to be honest, you two should be single and not create unnecessary drama.
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reader, llifton +, writes (5 January 2014):
 clearly you two aren't ready to be in a relationship together because you both have absolutely no idea what a commitment means.
if you want a casual thing, why be in a relationship at all? just be friends with benefits. end of story. but what you both are doing is really pointless. get out. you both don't love each other.
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