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writes:I love this guy, and he tells me he loves me. We have been together for 6 months now. All this while we've been together,i thought we were a couple until last week wen i text him that it was better we broke up since he said i was hurting him. I loved him so much but i really had to let go. But before then, he stopped calling and i stopped visitin. My problem here is that he called me on phone and told me that we were never couple. He was shoutin, wen i told him to stop, he said i never made him happy all this while. I was hurt with those words and i did cry. We never spoke again until yesterday wen he saw me, and asked about how i was doing. We talked and he asked me to come over to his place which i accepted, but i didnt go to his place again. At this point, i still love him n do think about him but i dont know wot to do now because he told me he still loves me. Im just confused please help me. Thanks
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (25 September 2013):
 he does not love you and he said that in hopes you would go have sex with him.
never listen to a man's words unless they are backed up by his actions.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2013): He doesn't love you. He just says that. He told you that you weren't a couple; because he may have had his eye on another girl. If he suddenly wants to see you again, it might be because it didn't work out.
When guys hurt you like he has, you can't keep taking them back after he leaves you. That is because he will hurt you again and again. He knows that all he has to do is say he loves you, and you'll take him back. No matter what he says or does. That is what a foolish girl will do.
I think maybe you liked him so much and may have been giving him sex. That made you think you were a couple; because he kept coming back. Then when he got tired of you, he told the truth. He doesn't consider you his girlfriend.
I don't know if you will listen to my advice; because you will keep believing him when he tells you he loves you.
Make him prove that he loves you. Remember he said you weren't a couple and he made you cry. He is mean and he will hurt your feelings again. He shouldn't shout at you.
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reader, GentleGiant  +, writes (25 September 2013):
This is said and callous act performed by your x boyfriend but there should be no confusion. It is over plain and simple. I am sorry to hear you were hurt and crying. This was not fair to you. I just wish when you saw him that you yelled back at him and tell him what you really felt in the way you were treated..If he told you he still loves you he is plain and simply lying to your face. Do not give him another moment of your time. He is cowardly and sneaky. He loves you only for the sex he can extract from you and in a couple of weeks he will yell and scream at you again. Move on, yell at him and find a man who wants a genuine relationship with a woman who wont be a door mat or a push over. You are better and deserve a better person. Stand strong against this sneak and liar. Move on. good-luck.
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