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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2013): Asking someone with a lot of sex partners whether that should be a big deal to you is a loaded question. They have a natural bias although political correctness dictates that nobody should see it that way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2013): I think there are alot of very beautiful Indian girls who like you are virgins because of the cluture in which they have been brought up. I also think marrying from the same culture is more successful in general. However if you think you have missed out on sex and relationships what is holding you from going out with girls in Australia? you don't have to think marriage with every girl you take out.you can get to know them and maybe in due course change your mind and decide that it is not a problem after all if she has been with other guys before you.
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reader, Boost  +, writes (24 September 2013):
I don't think it really matters how many partners someone has had what matters is the person you are with. I've had a few, and the majority have been mistakes. I've been cheated on and lie to by a few of them which I didn't realise was going to happen at the time. Would I change it if I could? Of course I would. However I can't. The most important thing is that I've learnt from the mistakes and know who to avoid. I don't think a persons past should really play a part in how we view them. An ex of mine had about the same amount as me - I didn't think any less of her because of it they were mistakes she made and got duped
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reader, Intrigued3000  +, writes (24 September 2013):
 In my opinion virginity is overrated. True love is what you should be seeking.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI can marry girl from any cultural background.Even if I am ready to marry a girl who had been in a relationship,I really do not know where to find them.I often hear that some girls had more than 10 boyfriends before marriage,That makes me little concerned.If she had 1 or 2 boy friends,then It is ok for me.I remained virgin not by choice.I did not any take initiate to loose it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2013): I'm 23 and have been with my partner for almost 4 year and he is the only man I have ever slept with. I did feel like I should have dated more as I kniw my partner is the person I am going to marry. So I know some of what you are feeling.
If you don't want to be with a girl who has slept with someone before you then it is probably going to be a little harder for you to find someone. Do you want to marry an Indian woman? Or would you be with someone who irks from another background??
Do You want to wait until marriage? If not then you can still date girls and see elbow it goes.
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reader, MrGoodEnough  +, writes (24 September 2013):
 Then u are going to be waiting a while. But I know what u mean. Your not going to find a virgin girl at your age now because if u get one that is 18 you are lucky. My advice? Find a girl that u get along with. That's the best u can do.
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