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writes:I am trying so hard to forget about this man i am very much attracted to. But the more I deny I have feelings for him, the more I keep thinking about him. I think I am in love with him but I am not so sure. The last time I have spoken to him was 3 months ago and the reason why we stop talking because I ended it.I ended it because I am scared to care for him too much. Every move he makes distracts me. I know I really do care for him but I can't let him in to my life. I know I will just get hurt and I am too tired giving love a chance when I know its not going to work, anyway. I tried to forget him and date other guys but his still the one i want to be with. His all I think of, day and night. how can you tell when your in love with someone? If I am then what should I do to forget him? I tried dating other guys, its not working. I tried making myself busy as bee. When the night comes and I'm all alone, I find myself thinking of him. This is so bad. i think I'm in love. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionlovehelp,i am not sure about it. all I know is that he stop talking to me the last time I told him that we should stop seeing each other. thank you janniepg and anonymous reader. Your both right i can forget all about this in time. but for now all i know is to think of him
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2013): Honestly, I think it sounds like you need some time to get over it or to get a grip on it. It's never good to feel like you need someone or that you're setting yourself up to get hurt. You can't get into a relationship with someone if you aren't mentally ready for what a relationship does. I'm kinda wondering how long you have dated this guy for before you two split. I've always looked at emotions as the physical feeling of chemicals being released in the body, something that has to be ignored from time to time in order to make logical decisions. Being busy and being stimulated differently are different things. Going for a walk, drawing a picture, cleaning, these things still allow you to reflect on him. Hanging out with good friends or trying new things are some examples of ways you can get a person off of your mind rather quickly.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (22 September 2013):
 You can be in love and at the same time afraid of love. You date other guys and it didn't work because you are dating them to get over that one person, and not necessarily because you like the other guys. I think you are infatuated with him. You don't sound like you are ready for relationships. It's okay to be single. When you are not afraid anymore then you could start over again, but not that guy because I do believe in making good first impressions. In time you will forget him but I don't think what you should do now is force him out of your minds. Instead do something that makes you feel good. Some activity that you are willing to do and will give you instant rewards. It's much better than this inner battle of wanting something but not letting it happen.
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reader, Lovehelp2000  +, writes (22 September 2013):
If feel strongly about him then get back with him or give both of you time to think about what you want. Was he heart broken when you ended it........ he may feel the same way about you
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