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writes:I have had strong feelings for this since I was a teenager...he moved abroad and we kept in contact..he stated that he felt the same way as well...sometimes in my heart I feel like we are soul mates...but another part of me is scared that it is infatuation...should I still take the risk and go abroad to see him?? even though he is involved with someone....keep in mind he is looking forward to seeing me...
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reader, Brokenv  +, writes (8 July 2013):
I think you should go. You know that he is involved in a relationship. He lives miles and miles away. It is not like you are going to have a commitment.
You have to expectations that are realistic about the situation. I think the experience may be good for your personal growth.
Good Luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2013): Do you believe in karma?
I do too. his in a relationship. how would you feel if you have bf and your bf will also have a fling with someone?
Do you think its a good idea?
I had married suitors. they denied their married. but I know they are.
No matter how I am attracted to them.
I declined the idea of even getting involved with someone who is already taken. Regardless if married or has a gf.
Either way, they are taken.
This type of guys cannot be trusted, and you know exactly why. Its your choice. If I were you, No. I wont.
Besides if he wants to see me, he should fly to see me.
Not the other way around.
I'm not saying this to hurt you, I just want you to be better when it comes to making decisions.
Good Luck!
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reader, Xearo +, writes (7 July 2013):
I think it is bit much of a stretch to travel to another country, just to see someone, especially when that someone already is with someone else. I think it is too much to do for someone. Soul Mates? How can you be soul mates with someone who isn't with you? How can he feel the same way as you if he is involved with someone else? Infatuation is an understatement.
The most that will become of this is the both of you having sex. After that you will be known as the girl who travelled countries just to steal someone else's bf. And people will also think you are desperate since you can't find someone else in your own country.
Well I just don't think it is a good idea, as I am someone who tries to steer away from drama. You are in love with the past. He should be the one to visit you, not the other way around. I am not saying he is doing anything wrong..if a girl completely offers herself to come to my place even though she knows I am with someone, well, who am I to stop her.
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