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female
age
26-29,
*iver_Sawyer
writes:The relationship I am currently in is going great, things are fine, but I am starting to feel really possesive over her and get really jealous sometimes because of all the attention she gives to one of our friends, I don't want to ruin this so I don't say anything, I would never want to keep her from being happy but it makes me angry and distant even when I try not too and I get too over dramatic and start thinking to much! What do I do? I don't want to ruin this...I just want to stop being jealous or at least learn how to control how I react better!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (14 December 2012):
 Are you insecure within yourself? It is a well knowing fact that once someone gets possessive in a relationship they lose there partner. At the end of the day if the attention she is giving your friend is purely friendship only then that is something that you just need to accept. She is free to be friends with whoever she likes, as are you.
At the end of the day you need to remember she has chose to be with you, because she wants to be with you not your friend, if she wanted to be with your friend then she would be. So instead of feeling jealous and possessive try and remember that you are the one that is in a relationship with her.
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