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writes:HelloI like a girl who is a bit traditional and conservative. I see this girl in the gym almost everyday. For about 6 months or so, I barely spoke to her because she seemed a very quiet type who didn't speak to anyone. About two weeks ago, I managed to gather some courage and made some small talk. I asked her for her name, what she does etc. Since then, we always exchange smiles, say hi and even bye on many of the days.I want to ask her for her number but don't know how long I should wait. She gives me a big smile when no one is around but the smile becomes a half smile if her trainer is around or if people are there in the adjacent treadmill.It is difficult for me to get in a spot where she can be uncomfortable to talk to me freely, as the gym is always busy.How can I ask this girl for her number without putting her in a spot where she feels a little embarrassed to be seen giving her number to a guy. Also, do I need to make more small talk before asking for her number.Please let me know. I have very strong feelings for this girl. She is very cute but I mostly like her because she is very sweet, a bit quirky and has one gorgeous smile. Reply to this Question
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reader, Tatiana101  +, writes (14 December 2012):
She is probably just a shy person and being around other people especially in a gym, she's probably self conscious..
As a shy person myself I would just want the guy to ask me straight out if id like to go out for coffee and say here's my number(write it down) give me a call if your interested. It does sound like she's interested though.
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reader, oldbag  +, writes (14 December 2012):
 Hi
From what you have said she sounds interested, why not just ask her if she would like to grab a coffee after the gym?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2012): Hi
Thanks for your reply. I am the person who asked the question. I suppose I can ask her out for a coffee or something. However, giving her my number is as difficult as getting her number, in my opinion, unless you meant that I write it down on a piece of paper and give it to her.
Do people still do that anymore? I thought people just take numbers straight on their phone.
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