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female
age
30-35,
*ebeccaa
writes:hey, so my question is how do you cope with a controlling friend?Me and my boyfriend had an argument, nothing major, but i thougth our relationship was over i felt tlike he didnt care, but he proved wrong, he begged for me back i kept saying no but he begged and begged evenntually i gave in and he showed me how he had changed he must of learnt his lesson because i feel now like he cares.Anyway when me and boyfriend fell out i stopped at my friends for a couple nights to help keep my mind off of things, she was demanding i didnt speak to him wasnt allowed to see him was never allowed to take him back. When he asked to talk to me and i agreed we went for a walk she came looking for me and started crying because i was talking to him, saying i was rubbing it in her face that were back together and at that point we wernt even back together we were just talking things through. I think all this is because of her ex who cheated on her and still she wanted him back but he didnt want her and then went out with one of her friends (obviously there not friends now) but i think shes jealous because my relationship is still going and boyfriend acctually cares where as hers didnt. Now weve fallen out, but the thing is its not my fault her boyfriend cheated on her and just because shes not with him anymore doesnt mean i cant be with mine. When im ok with my boyfriend she wants nothing to do with me but when were not she does, please help!
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reader, Rebeccaa +, writes (1 August 2012):
Rebeccaa is verified as being by the original poster of the question i know shes very insecure because when we were friends she always used to coppy how i dressed how i did my hair make up etc. Thankyou i thought thats what it was
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reader, no nonsense Aidan +, writes (1 August 2012):
She’s a very insecure person. She dislikes your boyfriend because she sees him as competition for your attention. That’s why she only wants to know you when you and your boyfriend fall out. She probably wants you to split up so that she can be the object of your attention. It’s a shame but you should probably distance yourself from this friend.
I wish you all the very best.
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