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*nvincible
writes:Hey guys... I ll come straight to point ... I have a girlfriend...She is beautifuk classy hot n everything dat i wabted ... One thing i wnted most is her virginity... But she s wasnt ... She had a asshole first bf ... So i still love her so much as hell n she is dieing for me we almost do everything together ... But nw she wanta to marry me n the thing is my parents dont like her background and family and i sont know what to do .. If i leave her she may be heart broken badly ... I cant go against my parents...its a fanily complication.. Help me how to leave her slowly and not make her feel that she has done something wrong... Reply to this Question
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reader, Invincible +, writes (2 August 2012):
Invincible is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankyou all u beautiful ppl dat u find ur precious time for me ... First if she would be virgin i wont mever ever hav sex with her before marriage ... C am not an selfish dat if i m not a virgin n i still want everybody else virgin..and i try to talk to her about this matter that u should get married but she get so much angry so i dont talk anymore on this subject ... All i m doing ryt now is staying normal with her ... She told me that she would find a person like me ... Sumtimes i try to become selfish n mean infront ov her dat maybe after dat she wud hate me but i m not like dat i cant create a drama ....
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reader, Invincible +, writes (2 August 2012):
Invincible is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYeah ... I know i made some mistakes but its like i really don't want to leave her but there is so complexity n problems in her home dat s y my parents don't accept
So wat do i do now ??
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (2 August 2012):
 Hmmm, so - if you wanted her virginity did you get it before you decided to break up with her?
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (2 August 2012):
 You can't leave someone SLOWLY. It's just plain CRUEL to drag it out.
If you can't be with her the best and nicest thing you can do is be honest and upfront about it and make the break clean and fast.
Tell her that SHE didn't do anything wrong, but you have to honor your parents. And next time... don't date girls your parents can't accept.
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reader, Dear Mandy  +, writes (2 August 2012):
 HI
Sorry but your a grown man who should be with who ever makes YOU happy. Your parents will one day not be on this earth but you will be, if you keep living your life for everyone else you will never find happiness. That said your better just being straight with her and tell the truth, quicker is better than dragging it out. sometimes in life you have to be cruel to be kind, atleast she will be able to find a man that will love her and stand by her no matter what.
Mandy
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