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First love and first heart break and I'm feeling confused!

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Question - (1 August 2012) 1 Answers - (Newest, 2 August 2012)
A female United States age 26-29, *eximami writes:

hey i am 13 nd about to be 14 next month about 9 months ago my guy bestfriend introdueced me to his friend which happens to be one of my bestfriends cousin well we ended up fallin for eachother and went out ifor about 8 days but it only took 8days for me to fall inlove wit someone i never though would be my first love after we broke up i told him a couple of times how i felt and he blew me off act like he aint care about what i was telling him one day i got tired of it and said this is the last time im going to tell him how i feel but this time i put it in a letter basically pouring out m heart to him and for a few days he didnt reply or say anything about the letter so i decided to give up it wasnt easy so then he finally brought it up and askin if the feelins are still there days later the feelings came bak so we ended up bak together and this time was great we went out and did stuff together and were inlove it didnt work!thers days i dnt care about him and other days i miss him im so confuesed need advice

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2012):

Honestly, you probably won't like hearing this... But, you are still very young and naive.. So since he's your first boyfriend you feel as if you are in love.. But really you aren't quite at the age where you fully understand love or life in general.. But.. Still to answer your question, no you aren't in love.. You're just experiencing a huge crush and since you two "dated" you being a young girl want a lot of attention from boys and are confused as to why he dated you but doesn't care to hear your feelings. It will be ok though, life does go on. Just focus on being happy, surrounding yourself around family and friends, and just being a kid. Don't try to grow up too fast! Good luck..

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