How can I rekindle our friendship without appearing desperate?

A female age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Dear all, I will be brief with this. I met him in another country about two months ago and separated a week ago. We got the friendship going really well till when we both became lustfull. We did not have sex, but we cuddled, hugged and spent time like couples would normally do. He wanted sex but I refused because he did not want a relationship yet I wanted it. He did not say bye to me before leaving. I sent him an e-mail saying bye and generally wishing him well. He did not reply. This is the problem: I miss this guy a lot but he won't reply my mail!I genuinely fell in love with him even though I could not indulge in sex. All I have of now is his e-mail address which he had given me but technically, I got it from fb after searching for him.I hoped he would respect my decision or at least miss me given what we shared. Any tips on how I can rekindle the candle of our friendship without necessarily becoming desperate? He is 29 and I am 30.

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