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51-59,
*ortow
writes:am i kinky?i am a 46 yrs. old slim attractive widow. in march of this year, i met a wonderful likewise lady three years older than myself for companionship etc. we have become enormously great friends and confide in each other.one weekend last month,we were talking in her kitchen when she reached into a shoulder bag and asked, "fancy a little fun"?to my great awe, she produced a set of handcuffs.on examining them i found them to be the real thing.she explained that a few years before losing her husband they discussed ways of giving their life together a bit of a zap!knowing her enough to trust,i allowed her to fit them on my wrists.not letting on at the time, i quite enjoyed the experience and didn't say anything until she removed them about an hour later when i needed to use her bathroom.the matter was not brought up again that evening.last weekend when i walked in her living room, i playfully held out my wrists for her.reaching into a furniture unit, she cutely obliged.expressing our joint admiration for the other,i threw my arms over her ,and we hugged and cuddled each other for a few long minutes.unless i needed the bathroom, i raised no objections for the rest of the evening.neither of us have raised a pass to the other, and haven't poured out our inner souls yet, but i can say that i am enjoying this.i suppose i should be discussing the matter with her to place boundaries on our activities, but i am not sure if even that is what i want.i would be extremely grateful for any advice that anybody, can give. are my hormones out of kilter? what are the dangers of our escapades going unchecked? have i suddenly become kinky-or just woken something that was there anyway? should i relax and stop worrying? Reply to this Question
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (7 August 2011):
 Relax and have fun. You are doing no one any harm.
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reader, muso888 +, writes (7 August 2011):
Your behaviour might be kinky... But why on earth shouldn't you relax and enjoy it? You might find it useful to bring up the subject of a code word that either of you can use if the situation makes you uncomfortable. As long as you feel safe then have fun!
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