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writes:Ok I,m going out with this great guy over a month now and I think i,m ready to sleep with him. The thing is I,m a virgin and he doens't exactly know it. like we've messed around a bit but I pushed him away when he tried to go forward and I do have strong feelings for him and it feels right when i,m with him. But i,m not sure how to go about all of this. I,m so nervous what should I Do? Reply to this Question
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (31 August 2011):
 Get a real relationship with him first. Have him as your boyfriend before you have sex with him. Being "some guy you're dating" isn't enough. When he is committed to you as a boyfriend it will be easier to talk to him about this and tell him.
At some point you need to tell him though, and preferably before you're both naked in bed.
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (31 August 2011):
 I bet he is nervous too because the first time with a new partner whether you are a virgin or not is nerve racking. Just be up front about it and say "I really want this but I want you to know that I'm a virgin so lets take this slowly" I'm not a guy but I suspect a lot of guys like the idea of sex with a virgin.
All the best make sure it's safe sex!!
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