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writes:My boyfriend has just dumped me completely out of the blue! We enjoyed a long weekend together and when I said goodbye to him on Monday evening we kissed and arranged to chat in the week. Then he called me today and said ' I just want this stopped' I asked him for an explanation but he just said he did not think this was not right for him and he wanted to stop it now before someone got hurt. I have to say that I dumped him two weeks ago because I got cold feet ,, we have only know each other for 5 weeks and I felt things were going too fast.. however I regretted it and cried all night and called him the next day to apologize and explain.. since then we have got along really well except that it made the relationship insecure.. Now he's done it to me and I have no explanation at all.. Please can someone help? I am devastated and really miss him.. I don't know what to do.. please please help me!
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reader, RedAthena  +, writes (31 August 2011):
 The only person who has the truth why he called it quits is him. :(
The way he handled it was pretty cold.
Consider yourself lucky that you did not invest a whole lot of time in him. You said since the last break up that the two of you had not gotten along really well and there was some insecurity. After the weekend, maybe he decided that the two of you would not be very successful as a couple long term.
Some men break up like ripping off a bandage. Some think it is better to do quickly rather than slowly.
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (31 August 2011):
 he has either done this coldly as an act of revenge for dumping him previously or he is scared that you will dump him again so he wanted to get in there first. could be lots of reasons though, maybe something happening in part of his life that you don't know about (another woman for example)
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reader, migs +, writes (31 August 2011):
cold feet refers that he proposed to you and you rejected him and i supposed he is moving way to fast for only knowing each other 5 weeks you shouldnt be madly in love in 5 weeks you should be cautious and think about the next 5 years
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