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anonymous
writes:Hi. Is it normal for a guy/girl to sleep with someone else on their stag/hen do? I've known people to do this but I dont think I agree with it.Would love to hear some opinions, not just from girls, guys too please!Thanks for reading. Reply to this Question
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reader, idoneitagain  +, writes (1 September 2011):
Some people think it unsurprising that it happens, that it is expected, in the same way that some people come to expect people to cheat in relationships. It has become a sort of norm for infidelity to occur, and it has become a kind of "acceptable" norm for people to sleep with someone on their stag/hens night.
It is cheating, and it is unaccptable. It is also a sad indictment on our society that it happens with such frequency as to become a kind of norm, but I do think this behaviour is still really in the minority, most people do not behave in this way.
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reader, Coopervikki +, writes (31 August 2011):
um yes of course its wrong, doesnt mean people dont do it but i wouldnt be marrying someone if they were going to cheat on their stag or hen do. Its not right atall, if people want to shag about still they shouldnt get married to begin with
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2011): Hi I'm the OP. I agree, I think it is wrong too but I do think it does happen alot (as does cheating). I know the wives in question know nothing of what happened. Sad isnt it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2011): Nope. Not normal. I've never heard of anyone doing it, which means it is seldom done or that those who do it know enough to conceal it.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (31 August 2011):
 No, it's not normal. Cheating is cheating no matter what day it is.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (31 August 2011):
No. It's cheating - period.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2011): Hen nights or stag nights are no different than any other time in a relationship. Sleeping with somebody else is cheating. Therefore I completely disagree with it and find it strange that anybody would agree to it.
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