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writes:this is a bit of a boy question but i really want some one to help me.i am going out with a boy. lets say he is called andy. and i have a best m8 lest say she is called jen. i have been going out with andy for about 4 months now but i am worried that he is going to dump me for jen.i dont no why. but i no she has a major crush on him and i told him when i wasnt ment to but then she told him. i was told by holly my other m8 that andy was on the phone for 3 hours with jen and this worried me soo much! i dont no why. also i really h8 almost every thing about me but im not suicidal. but tht is another reason. im ugly mean and fat in my opinion and i am so scared that he is going to dump me when i finally reolise that i love spending time with him and dont want him to dump me. please please please can some one reply to this.
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reader, candy00s +, writes (27 May 2007):
 This could just be your friends way of making you think there is something going on when there isnt so that you will end it with him.
Do u know for a fact that he was on the phone to this 'friend' of yours for 3 hours?
talk to him, tell him that you really like being with him, see if you can find out where you stand.
hope some of this may help you
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2007): No, no no, hun please dont be worried- i still talk to some of my good guy friends for 5 or even 6 hours on the phone- even though they have girlfriends- just think of her as another one of the guys.. if he was really cheating... it was probalby because of your mistrust in him and insecurity.. be cool with it.. when you get jealous its like you are making them feel guilty for having other friends.. Please work on this and have a heart to heart with him- if hes cheating you can tell- ( There are signs- google it) But otherwise try to work on loving yourself first- YOU are beautiful and you can change if you set your heart on it. I reccomend seeing a therapist- she may be able to help you out through these tough times and give you some pointers( Dont worry you arent crazy- they are there to help anyone who needs it!) I highly reccomend- it has saved me and brought so many loving relationships into my life and helped me lose weight and lvoe my self etc- I know you are strong and youcan do it! Good luck.
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reader, DV1  +, writes (27 May 2007):
 Have faith. Don't believe everything that you hear from people, whether they are your friend or otherwise. Unless he starts acting oddly or says something that worries you, don't worry about it.
DV1
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