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writes:ok i'm kinda stuck. lets put you in the situation. if you really really really liked a girl and you would try and talk to her so much because it makes you happy. your dream is to go out with her but you cannot because it's not as easy!this girl i see at school, she my friend yet i see her walkin and try to change the direction i'm walkin just to walk past and talk to her. i try to make a conversation. and if she smiles i cant get her out of my mind!she's never had a boyfriend because she tells me she see's all her friends have boyfriend's, and they are always cryin and gettin there heart broken so what's the point?this girl is really intelligent and drop dead beautiful.she would never go out with me, coz i'm no way as good lookin as her!i got the hint when i asked her to the prom last year, she accepted but than made an excuse the next day about wanting to go alone and enjoy it with her girl mates.she said it in a very nice way and said the decision was not coz of me but her friends and dont take it personally.but for weeks after she was acting very differently and was clearly avoiding to talk to me. me and her are good friends but only talk at school and sometimes on the phone.i dont know what to do. if i tell her my feelings it may be awkward and there is no re-wind button i can press, i cant move on either i am litterely crazy over her!sorry this is so long, i would love to recieve as many responses as possible! thanks
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reader, candy00s +, writes (27 May 2007):
 You sound like you really like this girl.
Why dont you talk to her on the phone (if u find it easier than face to face). Just tell her that you really like her and find out if you could be more than friends. If she doesnt want to be more than that they accept you will only ever be her friend.
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reader, DV1  +, writes (27 May 2007):
 The best thing that you can do is give her space and move on. There are other fish in the sea...
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