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writes:attraction does it mean that it could be a friendship and it could turn in to a relaationship. i have alot of attraction for a police officer. Reply to this Question
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reader, candy00s  +, writes (27 May 2007):
 If he is attracted to you then yes this could develop into something more.
It could be that this could become something more, but maybe your destined to be friends.
Talk to him and see where you stand?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2007): Be careful! My ex and I had what I thought was a really strong friendship first and when he asked me to be his girlfriend it was all I ever wanted, until that is he started treating me bad, had sex with me once and then started ignoring me and treating me even worse until he dumped me 6 weeks later. He then naively wanted to be good friends after this which I could not believe. The upshot of this is I lost an amazing friend (but a lousy boyfriend), but I don't think we will ever get back to being friends because I feel deceived by him even though I am not sure that was his intention. I ended up a complete mess and even contemplated suicide because I felt so bad when it ended. I guess what I am saying is you can think you know your friend like the back of your hand like I did with mine, but a relationship with them is a whole different ball game. I now feel like I never knew my ex at all.
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reader, Cateyes +, writes (27 May 2007):
 You are attracted because you are probably physically attracted. However, whether physically or because you have a friendship with someone where you have a close bond, in my opinion, either could turn in to a relationship. But if it's only because of physical reasons, then I would take it slow in order to really get to know him. A relationship cannot be based soley on looks, he could be a jerk or he could be a real catch, just depends on the type of person he is. It's hard to tell because there is so much not clear or more that needed to be stated.
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reader, DV1 +, writes (27 May 2007):
 A lot of the most beautiful relationships are the one ones where you're with your best friend. They know all of the little things that are important.
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reader, Helen Help! :) +, writes (27 May 2007):
 Hi ya I suppose if hes attracted to you to it could turn into a relationship but youve not really been specific enough i mean have you been friends with him long? because frm previous experience dont try and start something with a close friends i always sed you shouldnt date your friends n then i ignored that and did and it was a nightmare n i almost lost him. so if hes jus sum1 new in your life and u like him its worth a shot and then if it doesnt work out u havnt lost a good friend but if you try it with him and it doesnt work out u might also jus be friends in which case you'd jus have another friend and u can never have to many of those can you good luck :)
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