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writes: please help me i dont no if my boy freind has cheated on me the girl is going round saying she has done somthink with him and i realy dont wana lose him ????
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reader, lauxx +, writes (25 May 2006):
 hey, i crnt believe us girls can be so evil, girls lie all the time just to get there way, i believe she fancies your boyfriend and is trying to get him over, but don't shout at him and say what have you done? because men try their hardest to get out of things and if you shout at him, he might think forget this but do look him in the face and ask him but if he looks away or anything then you decide because remember once a cheater always a cheater!! good luck matexxx
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reader, bonym  +, writes (25 May 2006):
 I totally agree with the others particularly wendyg, she haa said what I was thinking really. As a female myself I often comment on how dangerous and manipulative we can be, I have experienced it so many times. Perhaps this girl is just jealous of your relationship and she is trying to stir up trouble. Talk to your guy, look him in the face and ask him. Tell his this, "Look me right in the eyes and tell me you did nothing with this girl." NO ONE can look someone in the eye and tell a lie without something giving them away. Trust me my dear, I have proven it and I know. Ask him, right to his face, demand and answer and if its a lie, leave the girl to do what she is doing, she will soon fall flat on her face from the lies if thats the case. All the best. xXx
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reader, been_there +, writes (25 May 2006):
 hiya! the best thing 2 do is privately and calmly ask your boyfriend. if u trust him- tell him that u do but u just want to be sure. dont confront him in an angry way or infront of his firends he will just get angry. if u do beleive the rumours though, it could be because you dont trust him? or beleive that he might cheat oin you? ask yourself if u trust him completely before you act. go with your gut feeling dont let him lie to you! good luck !!
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reader, Wendyg +, writes (25 May 2006):
 Perhaps you should ask him. This girl is probably just jealous and trying to cause trouble. Let him tell you his side of the story before jumping to conclusions. Its more likely the he told her he wasnt interested in her as he was with you and shes trying to get back at him!
Take care
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reader, blackcoffee +, writes (25 May 2006):
I went through that recently. Your boyfriend will deny it, she will insist it's true. The best thing to do is ask yourself in what spirit she is doing this. Does she want to break you up so she can have him? Has she always been there flirting with him? Do they have a history?
It might turn out something did or almost did happen then you have to ask yourself if you still want to be with him. There are some girls who will stop at nothing to get another womans man so be careful of her. Don't let her try to act all friendly with you. If she was so concerned why did she do things with him?
Good luck.
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