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writes: I have been living with my partner for two years now and although we have a great relationship I have started to suspect he may be gay.There aren't any of the usual signs - exactly the opposite, and although our sex life has taken a bit of a dive I had put this down to stress at work.Then I discovered that he had been accessing gay porn websites and I have now began to wonder if his quickness to prove his masculinity and his tenancy to over-react to anything remotely feminine (I suggested he use a face cream, as his skin is dry and he just about took the roof off) may be a little more than it appears to be.I think his denial stems from the fact that deep down he feels that he would never be accepted. He has no gay friends, runs with a strictly straight crowd and comes from a rather old school thinking family. He might just be curious, but my gut is telling me otherwise. I love him and want him to be happy. I am very outspoken and believe that everyone has the right to live without fear, but then I have ever had to endure that type of discrimination. How do I approach him without running over the top of him with the 'to hell with what people think' speech. I'm not very good a being delicate.and I need to be as delicate as possible, especially if it turns out I'm wrong.
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reader, chazx  +, writes (23 July 2006):
 well just gently speak to him about gay people and sort of fdrop it into the conversation but you have to be serious dont let him think its a joke
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