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writes:hey guys im really quite worried me and my boyfriend are in a really intamite relationship but im still a virgin and i want to have sex with him im just really worried that my *downstairs* will put him off or that he wont be able to get inside me. im also incredably shy and i hate showing myself off do you think that would put him off? any advice would be appriciated thanks in advance
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2006): Please try not to be worried hun. Everyone feels like this, especially before the first time they sleep with someone. Take your time and relax! Ask your boyfriend if he'll turn the lights off if need be!
Talk to him about this too, and express your concerns.
If he loves you hun, he will take into account your worries and will be prepared to take things at YOUR own pace. Your boyfriend also would not care about what your body looks like if he cares about you. He will love you for who you are.
Good Luck hun
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2006): Being self-concsious, especially your first time, is not uncommon. There are a few things you need to consider, however. He's in a relationship with you, and thusly this means he finds you attractive. beauty is in the eye of the holder honey! You have nothing to worry about. Good cleanliness is very important as i'm sure you know!
Talk to him about how you feel. Tell him you are nervous and want to take things slow. If he truly cares for you, and is willing to wait if you are not ready, then you'll know his intentions to you are sincere. Please don't give away your virginity without some serious thought! Is he the right guy? How does he make you feel? Remeber it is your body and your choice what you want to do.
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