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How do I confess my feelings risk-free?

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Question - (22 July 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 23 July 2006)
A male , anonymous writes:

i got 2 questions:

1.whats the best way to show a girl that you have strong feelings for her?

2.what hints can i give this girl to tell her i have strong feelings for her without being too upfront and heavy on her?

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A female reader, singlemomof1 +, writes (23 July 2006):

singlemomof1 agony auntRisk free? You have already admitted to yourself that you have feelings, there is no risk free now, your feelings are already there and you will never know if you don't step up and take the chance. you don't avoid everyday stuff because there is a risk of something happening to you?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2006):

Hello,

When it comes to approaching a girl and telling them about your interest you are taking a gamble the best way to go about this is based of the theory of action=reaction you want to go based of her actions and reactions.

If you start flirting and she responds than you are moving in the right direction throw a bit of confidence, humor and a little distance and you will be on your way to figuring out if she interested in you or not, but what happens if you go and tell her everything?

You give away your power, you are no longer a challenge and that leaves you open for error now if you did the suggestion from above followed with my advice offered through my program than you will have a date in no time.

The best way to show you have strong interest is to not show her at all.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2006):

There is no such thing as risk free. There is always a certain level of risk you take by doing what you want to do, even if you're subtle about it. However, to answer those two questions...

1. Support her (but not blindly), care about her well-being, show her that you want to spend more time with her - to get to know her, encourage her to go for the things she want (even if that means going for another guy), express your sincere friendship for her

2. See answer 1. Also remember to be yourself (possibly with some tact of course) - this can never be stressed enough.

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