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writes: What does that mean if your bf refuses to stay overnight after sex?I feel he is emotionally distant or he is not really into me anymore. It was always him who asked me come over and stayed there at the beginning of dating. Four months later, when we sort of seriously commit to each other, he holds back sometimes. Sometimes after sex he wanted to come back to his apt. I said you could stay but he just tried to give me lots of reasons but I can tell those lame excuses. Was wondering why and what does this mean? I think we are still in the honeymoon prase of this relationship, only daing for 5 months. What should I do? Just be laid back and relax or talk to him to explore what is going on? He spent lots of time out for bars/drinks stuff, does he such some energy out of me? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2006): It could mean that that he doesn't want a full on committed relationship. You will have to find out and ask him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2006): i wouldn't necessarily be worried about him going home at the end of the night. that doesn't mean he's not into you, or that he doesn't want to stay. he may just sleep better at his apartment, or he may have a lot to do the next day, etc. but i would definitely ask him, in a non-accusational way, why he doesn't stay anymore. and maybe find a good compromise in the middle; maybe he could stay on the weekends or something.
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