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anonymous
writes: Hello. I am a virgin and recently tried to have sex for the first time. I'm really worried that there is something wrong with me becuase my boyfriend just couldn't get inside me, it was excruciatingly painful. We tired several times, but it just just didn't happen for us. it was so painful. What's wrong with me?? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2008): there is nothing wrong with you
this same thing happened to me and my boyfriend
lots of people experience the same problem
you just have to make sure that you are aroused enough before trying to have sex. lots of foreplay will ensure this
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2007): Hunny, theres nothing wrong with you. You need to have foreplay before being able to just have sex. :)
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reader, chazx  +, writes (24 July 2006):
 there is nothing wrong with you babe its your first time so it will be painful but i dont understand why he has had problems getting it in maybe see a doctor about why it was so painful or why it wouldnt go in and maybe you and your boyfriend can do other stuff until you sort this out ok!dont be in a rush to have sex.i hope you get it sorted good luck !
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reader, Wighty +, writes (23 July 2006):
The above posters give good advice. Foreplay is a necessary element to any good sexual encounter, and a little added lube never hurts either. One thing you might also consider is the position of your body. Every woman's anatomy is a bit different, but sometimes a simple raising or lowering of the hips will make the fit easier. You might consider doing a little research online regarding different sexual positions. If one is giving you trouble, try another. Whatever you do, take your time. There is absolutely no rush.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2006): there is nothing wrong with you,but how about trying a bit of foreplay before the sex the next time, asking him to use his fingers or his tongue. Or how about practising on your own by investing in a sex toy, this way you can get used to the feeling and make it easier and painless for the times with your boyfriend
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2006): there is nothing wrong with you just relax and let it happen naturally also use lubricant good luck
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reader, karenw61 +, writes (22 July 2006):
hi
believe me when i say there is nothing wrong with you.
he didnt take the time to be gentle with you . its never what you think it will be the first time it takes some one kind, caring and gentle,and please remember you can only ever give your virginity away once so make sure its to some one that you want to remember
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