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writes: Hi, I have been seeing this woman for the last two months. Things are pretty intense at the moment, so there is a lot of intimacy. Problem is, she smells. Any suggestions? Reply to this Question
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (23 July 2006):
 Does she bathe alot, is she just unclean, or maybe there is a medical reason she smells. when you say she smells what sort of smell are we talking about, one down there thats a bit rife or something else. At different times of the month a female can have a different smell down there and no matter how fussy she is with cleaning she cant always remove the smell, during the hot weather this can be made worse, or she could have an infection that shes unaware of. You will need to mention this to her as she may not realise that she smells, perhaps have a shower together and see if this makes a difference, if it doesnt she may need to get looked at to make sure she hasnt got an infection, i dont mean sexually transmitted, but any number of infections and inbalances can make her maybe not smell as fresh as she should. Try the shower together and take it from there, also if she uses alot of talcum this can actually make her smell abit as it interferes with natural vaginal balance.
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reader, juttandmeff +, writes (23 July 2006):
There's not really an easy way to go about it - why not suggest a shower or a bath together before 'getting down to it' next time?Good luck....
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2006): Hello,When it comes to dating I am a man who believes in options if the girl smells what can you do well start with a bar of Dove Soap. What the hell do you mean she smells?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2006): I think you should be honest with her, but broach the subject in a gentle, caring way that won't cause too much hurt. If you don't tell her and you make it obvious (even if its unconsiously) that something about her is bothering you, it'll just serve to cause tension and unease in your relationship.
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