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writes: Well this is my first time having sex and I waited for the right person, but now I'm scared because I don't know if he will enjoy it and will he fit. I'm scared to ask him if he like girls wih hair or no hair down there because I already keep mine shaved and trimmed. I don't know what to do. Also I want to have phone sex with him cause he talked about it a lot but I don't know what to say. So can someone plz help me?
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reader, Dazzerg +, writes (16 January 2006):
On the first two things I can't really add to what has already been said. On phone sex, the trick is to see yourself there in your minds eye. I suspect that you are having problems with what to say because you haven't had actual sex so maybe you lack the confidence to describe it.
However, if you exercise your imagination then it is possible to have very erotic phone sex without having had actual sex. The key is not to be worried about 'saying something wrong'. There are not any 'rights' or 'wrong's'. Sex is the science of exploration as as it is with phone sex. Explore your partners and your own desires and through this you will grow physically and emotionally closer. Hope that helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2006): shaved all the way! but trimming is good too!
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reader, michelina1963 +, writes (16 January 2006):
Well from years of experance, Men like to find your spot with out hunting for it and besides a mouth of hair is just not what they are looking for. And besides look and the climax you will have. Less is more and I would say. And the phone sex is an awsome idea. Try it you will see what I am talking about .
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2006): Well from years of experance men find that when having oral sex they like to be able to get to the spot that counts than trying to find it.So being shave close is good and you will be able to have a better climax as well. And phone sex that is very sexy try it you will see what I am talking about
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2006): As a guy, i definately prefer well trimmed. Hope that helps!
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reader, headland +, writes (16 January 2006):
Just talk to him about it and let all your feelings out, if he is a true boyfriend who loves you for who you are he wont care as long as he has you in his arms!
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