| A
female
,
anonymous
writes: Hi , it's weird cos I really don’t know where to start.But ill admit ive done a few wrong things.I am in love with a guy who considering the way he treats me does not deserve my love.Its been an on and off relationship for three years I was a bit rushed and young in the beginning and he backed off. we then got together after I made a fool of my self by admitting to him that I love him right in the middle of the street and telling him I know he hasn’t got feelings for me and im ok with it. (It was partly true at the time)He then said he doesn’t love me but he likes me a lot and let's leave things to work themselves out. I agreed so he kissed me and the relationship lasted for a month longer.My mum found out that I was in a relationship with him and she heard some, let's call it late night talk with him which freaked her out she made me promise not to speak to him anymore. I did promise at the time but broke it two days later. I told him what happened he said It was stupid of me to let my mum find out, I agreed. After that he suddenly stopped answering my calls closing his phone ECT ECT. I got angry and set him a message saying I thought you were bigger than that and it's your loss ECT.He never even bothered to answer.Fate forced me to speak to him again in weird circumstances and we ended up discussing the relationship he said I was like a sister to him? He also said I only want a physical relationship with him and that he doesn’t want to hurt me.Six months later he was sleeping with his sister (me)!!!!!Ok the problem after all this is that I got to know his friends well and his brother with whom I assumed I was good friends.One of his friends then decided to chat me up and made clear in front of him that he wants to sleep with me. He didn’t even care. Another friend of his told me so and I faced him with the talk he said its my fault for joking around with them like I did and that he will now make it clear that I am not like his friends assume. Event though I believe it is his fault that they think the way they do (and mine also.)His friend kind of convinced me not to carry on with him and I think I have ruined any chance of him seeing me as long term potential but … I am sorry to say I still have hope. Please even if you think he doesn’t deserve it if there is a chance ….help. i know i have made mistakes but i am willing to fix them if possiblePlenty of thanks from a determined to succeed girl. Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, beenthere +, writes (12 December 2005):
don't do it. he is soooooooooooooooo not worth it. don't have anything to do with his friends either if you can help it. find someone nice
|
