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writes: Hi good morning. Im in a bit of a pickle and am really looking for some advice. My girlfriend and i were together for around about 4-5months and everything was great. I always knew that she was going to uni unfortunately at the other end of the country, however always chose to ignore that fact--probably why i got so involved. Now im not being big headed or anything but as a boyfreind i know i was good for her. i gt on with her folks thy liked me. her freinds liked me as well. i never restricted her--hec if she went out and wa struggling id give her themoney for it and would even pick her and her pals up at 2am athough id be in work at 7am. I never once made her chose between me or her pals, and wenever anything was needed or wanted by her itwas done. Anyway 3 days before she left for uni i found out that she had cheated on hol. this hi me hard as she had always denied anything--she convinced me though to stay with her swore was a one off and that she loved me so much She then went to uni and for the first week everything was great. then i went to see her and it was fantastic. a couple of days after retrnin home she seemed funny didnt speak and ignored my ext. Then told nme she needed time which she got--we ended up splittin up but she said no1else was involved. I then had pretty much gt over her but my problem and where i need my advice is she is bak in town and i know il see her. he knows i still love her but i need help on what to do and how to act when i do se her--specially when id love to go back to how things were...canwe get bak together?any advice would be greatcheers
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2006): im afraid mate it looks like you were well and truely used! you gave her money to go out! bit foolish really specially if she was a cheat! to be honest her braking up with you was a good thing! get over it! you sound like a bit of a loser to me! its lucky you aint with her anymore
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2005): Hi! In my opinion you should start again to get to know her but only like a friend cos It could be the most important stage in every relationship. Maybe you don't know her well enough and that is the reason why you don't understand her and you hesitate................ Have you thought about that?I think after to be in love we need talk, talk and talk with the partner about the inmediate projects cos it's basically. Sometime is not good to give only, you need to have a balance.Actually, she needs time, is good but be careful with your feeling.good luck!
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