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writes:Alright I know this question has been asked many times, because I've seen but they aren't what I'm looking for. So I'm going to ask anyway!(I'm a freshman in high school; well in ways I hoped that would make it easier to answer my question)I have found this girl that I am attracted too but I have never met her. And to this day I am sick and tired of being lonely and seeing some of my friends get all the girls and yet I can't get one. My questions are: 1. What should I say to her whenever I have the guts to talk to her?2. How should I approach her for the first time?3. How could I get her to notice me?If you have anymore info that I should know please post, I am getting desperate of getting a girl friend. And it's making me mad that I can't even speak to someone I like; even if I know her and like her, I don't have the guts to flirt with her. If you have any information that I should know, please say in your post? That would be appreciated!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2008): First off, once you stop being, as you say 'desperate' for a girl friend, that is when the girl will start popping from all over. At least that has been my experience.
Secondly, just say Hello. It is rather simple. Many men and young men have gotten my attention just by saying 'hello' and asking how I was doing. Some maybe had to say 'hello' to me a few times, but eventually they got my attention.
You will get her to notice you by saying 'Hello'. It is just that easy. :)
Keep your head up.
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (30 August 2008):
 I think that the answer is to get the courage up to try. I know that you fear rejection, but even if the worst happened, it's not the end of the world. I've learned in life, that my biggest regrets are things that I DIDN'T do... not the things I did. At least you won't have to wonder "what if I'd asked her out?"
I believe in that song "Leap of Faith" that Delbert McClinton sings as a duet (with Francine Reed I think?? can't remember)...
"I knew I was never gonna change my luck, til I got my courage up, enough to try,
And when I went ahead and spread my wings, I found out I could fly,
I had no way of knowing what would come from our first kiss
It scares me now just to think about, the good love, I might have missed"
"Sometimes, all it takes, it a leap of faith."
It's about someone who got hurt so many times that they were scared to love again, only to find out love does exist... you've got to take that chance.
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