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writes:I am 14 years old and my boyfriend started fingering me. We have done it before and i havent bled but yesterday he went faster and harder and longer and i noticed blood. i put in a pad last night and it seemed light but today its getting heavier and there are blot clots. I should be having my period in a week or more so is it my period or is it from tearing the inside of my vagina? I'm scared to ask my mom or doctor. Please help
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2008): That happened to me also.. i bled when my bf fingered me and then i had brown discharge for two days later.. its not my period. ive also just started on the pill.. should i be worried? when will the discharge stop?
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reader, Pork Hock +, writes (15 April 2007):
Don't worry that happened to me today after sex and I am 33! sometimes us girls are more delicate and we bleed. I've had embarrassing situations where I have bled all over my boyfriend and covered him in blood! He was fine with it just more worried he had done something to me.
Fingering can be harder and more forceful, it isn't hygeniec anyway, ask him to do oral...you don't know where his hands have been or whether he washed them recently. I've had bad cuts and infections from dirty wounds from men and to be honest they really don't care. Even if you are enjoying the sex either you move positions, blow him, without you having to say 'it hurts'. But don't suffer for sex, it is great and pleasurable and you shouldn't have to ask him to do, and you shouldn't have to do it for him, let it happen naturally. But give your lower parts a break, even if it means saying no, if doesn't like your answer then he wasn't worth it...take it from someone who knows. Keep clean and hygenic. You don't have to tell your Mum, you are a mature girl you can deal with it, just have willpower to turn him down, otherwise it isn't worth it...seriously.
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reader, Seratuki  +, writes (14 April 2007):
 Hi Sweetie,
Sounds like it's your period. Sometimes sexual activity can make your period start a little earlier than normal. If you're not in any severe pain and it doesn't stop I would say for sure it's your period.
If he somehow cut you or damaged you it probably would have clot over by now.
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