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anonymous
writes: i have DD boobs and yeh ok i don't mind but it makes having a bf really difficult. Boys say they like me gain my trust end up having more of a relationship with my boobs then me and then finish me, i want more then this. im not confident at all but showing my boobs makes me feel confident even though in the end it makes me regret it but thats all boys want from me and it's really starting to get old. How do i know if boys really like me? There is this boy i just met and im meant to be meeting him soon to go out somewhere and he calls me every night, he has seen my boobs before but i don't think thats all he likes me for he seems to genuinly like me. But i tend to push ppl away or do the complete opposite and be too clingy and whats worse is i know im doing it!! is there sumthing wrong with me ??
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2008): i love big tits but i prefer the personality and the humour in a woman
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2008): It's an interesting case, but i recommend to pay for a surgery, I know it cost too much but if you want an easy way to find a man who doesn't care look your double d, or just don't surrender early or later you would find your man.
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reader, Daizee +, writes (6 January 2007):
Your age is a difficult age for both boys and girls and to be fair sometimes even in my 30's it seems things haven't changed much. It might be that the boys who have treated you this way feel too young to be in a steady relationship. At any age holding back on any sexual activity will seperate those who are not worthwhile from those who are.
Think of it this way, if you let a guy have a look or have a feel too soon you could be wasting time better spent getting to know someone else who likes you for who you are. To be fair teenage boys will probably want to get their hands up your top as soon as possible, it is quite natural regardless of your bra size and sometimes it might be a case that if you give in too soon they might think you are cheap and lose interest, this is unfair and they are cheating themselves as well as you as they might really like you if they didn't have such unfair old-fashioned values - but again if you hold back you will find out. Hopefully you will learn how to use your DD's to your advantage when you are a bit older. All the best doll.
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reader, DeeDoc  +, writes (6 January 2007):
 THESE ARE MY THOUGHTS: Honey, your double d's are a part of you keep that in mind. I can't say that I know how you feel because I'm sportin some hellified C-'s...haha. Just look at it this way...if guys were to sport their "packages" outside of their britches...ummmm...they'd pretty much be dateless. Ha...sorry fella's. Your package just happens to be showing just a bit. Trust your gut feelings and don't let any "free feels" go by. Take pride in what God gave you. Don't let it be an anchor. I feel that you have a soft heart...give those guys a chance. They are not all the same. Trust in yourself and your first instints. You'll be just fine.
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reader, Seratuki +, writes (6 January 2007):
 oh sorry...and to further answer your question...not ALL guys are like that. Just try to be open minded about it. they like the way you look, however, don't let yourself be used.
It's best to just try to accept them as a part of you, and trust in the fact that not all men do that sort of thing..some men like eyes. or long hair, or legs...and just think what I do..some women would pay a ton of money to have what you do!
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reader, Seratuki +, writes (6 January 2007):
Hi there..
I have the same problem. and it really used to bother me too, until I decided to make a joke out of it. I'd start talking to a guy (or vice versa..) and they would stare..so I'd smile and say.."umm...my eyes are up here..thanks"
Then they would be embarrassed, we would both laugh, and that would be the end of it..try that.
Just try to make light of it, of course, if a guy is being really rude about it, you can always tell him to go to get lost..
Sara
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