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writes: My ex has been plating mind games a bit. For the last few months we have stayed in contact after the break up. I now have got to the point where I have had enough and have previously said for there to be no more contact. Now I have been ignoring him, am I wrong to do this? Keep getting missed calls and texts.. he may be worried but I can't back down now - I feel strong and ignoring seems the best although cruel, I have to look after myself and protect myself from getting hurt. Thankfully, he does not live near by.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2011): I think you are doing the right thing. It is time you thought of yourself and not him, as he doesn't seem bothered about how you feel.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2011): You offer no particulars as to the "mind games." However, I think it is in the best interest of both of you to go "no contact" so that you each have the time to heal, reflect and grow from your time together. Once you are no longer thinking about each other and the relationship, perhaps then would be a time to reconnect.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2011): If you have said no more contact and need that space to feel better - than block his phone number and texts for a while. You can pay the cell phone company a few dollars a month to do so. I had to do that with an ex because the messages were hurtful and aimed at sucking me into contact or a fight.
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reader, Trinklett  +, writes (29 May 2011):
 That depends on if you want him back or not. If you don't ignoring him is good as this will send the message very fast.
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reader, Aunty Susie  +, writes (29 May 2011):
 Yes, you are doing the right thing. So keep on being brave. He has no reason for contact. It's over, he needs to let go.
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reader, kylieekristina  +, writes (29 May 2011):
 He wasn't concerned with your feelings while playing the mind games, so you have to worry about yourself....and stop worrying about him
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