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writes:Hi, im 13 and i really like this boy, well in fact i love him, we went out and he dumped me a week later, we talked ans he asked me back out, i said yes and we were together for two weeks then he dumped me again! I really love him, but theres thia girl who is so much prettier than me who is a previoua girlfriend of his. She knows i like him and is still all over him!! She sits on his lap, cuddles him, asks for piggybacks, and kisses him on the cheek. He says he doesnt want a gf at the moment and wants me to wait, im willing to wait because i really think it will work. The problem is im sure there is something going on between them, what do i do? They both deny it but i dunno. Help???? Reply to this Question
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reader, sunandstars +, writes (29 May 2011):
Time is all this situation needs. If you wait the other girl will move onto someone else and if you still want him then I presume he'll still be there. But you should reflect on this, if he was to end up with you, he would have HAD to choose one of the two of you, wouldn't you rather be with someone who picked you because he wanted to, not because he had to? Does this boy actually have the qualities you want in a boyfriend? Don't waste your teenage years with guys who are going to hurt you, I made that mistake. Just enjoy your teen life! Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2011): If he asks you out again tell him you wouldn't feel happy going out with someone who lets other girls sit on his lap and cuddle him. Then if he wants you he is going to have to make an effort.
If he keeps dumping you that isn't good news.
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reader, cheerwhore23  +, writes (29 May 2011):
Don't get in too deep with him..y'all are both really young and I bet in a year or so you will be "in love" with someone else..the worst thing you can do is get in a serious relationship at your age
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reader, kylieekristina +, writes (29 May 2011):
 If he really cared about you he wouldn't allow this woman to throw herself all over him in front of you. It doesnt seem like he is worrying about your feelings at all. I think you deserve to be treated kinder than that.
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