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writes:Male or female ANY advice!!This girl i'm friends with and like has had a complete change of moods with me!! I admit, i was off with her and did ignore her because i didn't want to be around her... but i had my reasons. Though I didn't mean to push her away and make her think i don't like her!?!But still even when i did act like this around her, she still smiled at me and tryed talking to me. Instead now when she sees me she'll look the other way or look down and doesn't say anything to me. Or if she does say something, she doesn't look at me when she speaks. It's just a sudden change?My friend said she must of given up trying and assumed i didn't want to be friends with her. Is he right? I hope not! Do you think because of how i acted around her and my actions that she is treating me the same and assumed i didn't like her? And if so WHY would she do this?Cause if thats the case then its silly! Mine wasn't intentional, if she thought i didn't like her why didn't she just ask if i did or didn't, instead of now treating me like she doesn't like me!? Jheeze... GIRLS! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2011): Let me get this clear."I admit, i was off with her and did ignore her because i didn't want to be around her... but i had my reasons."How in heaven's blazes is the girl supposed to know that you like her after ignoring her?
If she is anything like me she loves you too much.she probably thinks that that you don't want to be friends with her and is trying to fulfill your wishes.
Its your call now.I don't think she will come and talk to you again after being rejected for so long.Jeez..us girls are human with feelings too you know.
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reader, adgjl09  +, writes (10 June 2011):
Yes you have given her the idea that you just want to be friends or that you are obviously just not that into her. I would do the same she is too. You need to ask her out and let her know how you feel. Why do you like her if you dont want to spend time with her?? The best way is to just be honest and say im busy right now we should catch up at this time instead you know???
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reader, kylieekristina +, writes (10 June 2011):
 Obviously you did ignore her intentionally ..... you said in your note "I had my reasons" Maybe she picked up on that. What was your reasons? And if you like her why is it her responsibility to tell you? Especially if you have treated her that way more than once. I don't know anyone that likes being rejected. I know a lot of people that would rathar die than put themselves out there in fear of being rejected. Due to you treating her inproperly at times she probally assumed she would be rejected. As far as her not looking at you when she speaks to you or giving you a cold shoulder.....She probally knows deep down she deserves to be treated a certain way, and maybe you didn't meet the criteria at times. A woman will only stand around and take your crap for so long.....no matter how much she likes you. I think you should talk to her and apologise for your actions before its too late, if its not already! (guys) geeeeeeeeesh!!!! lol
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reader, MissTellAll +, writes (10 June 2011):
 She may have felt rejected. Did she in any way try and make contact with you and you ignored her? Whether you have your reasons or not if you ignore her she's going to assume you don't like her.
Or maybe she is going through something herself and has her reasons for being a little cross with you. You won't know unless you ask her.
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