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writes: I have never been very popular with guys and have only ever Ben successful with guys by becoming friends then maybe taking it further. I'm not very confident so guys rarely notice me.So I have quite a few guy friends who at one point or another I may have thought I might want to take it further with but Have untimatly decided that I didn't have a chance so would stay friends. Anyway I was chatting to one guy friend and he admitted that he has liked me for a while but thought I didn't want to take it further. We left the conversation at that and said I would Think his offer over. Later I went out for a drink with another guy friend and I admit I may have had a couple to many and while drunk my friend kissed me, I went back to his house and crashed on the sofa (I should clarify that we didn't do anything further than making out on his sofa). The next morning he said he hoped that could happen more in the future and would give me time to think what I wanted.I thought this was bad enough as two guys who I have at some point fancied have expressed the desire to date me and given me time to think it over. I asked another friend for advice on the situation as i didn't know what to do. To cut to the chase in essence he told me that if he wanted to take a friendship further with anyone it should be with him.What should I do? I've thought over each one of these guys over and over and can't seem to come to any decision. What should I do I have three guys who have all offered meant opportunity to date them. The first guy is a real intellect and we often have long deep conversations and share many common interests. The second is an old university friend who I go out with and is a great fun guy who I love spending time with. The last one is gorgeous, a real athlete and is really good looking. What should I do I want to date them all equally as much but can't decide and I have no idea what to do ?
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reader, kylieekristina  +, writes (3 June 2011):
 Date all three without having any sex with them and see how you feel after a few weeks. I'm sure you'll fancy one more than the other after taking things a few steps furthur. See who makes you feel the best, who opens your doors, understands you , shares your interests in the future ex kids marrige etc. It should get easier with time and if they like you as much as they say they should be ok with you taking it slow at first.
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reader, Anastasia  +, writes (3 June 2011):
 Oh my...you are in a wee predicament. For you to decide who to have a relationship with...you will need to examine the types of friendship that you have with each gentleman. What are you looking for a in a partner? Is this something that you want to move into long term or even further ..marriage? Who do you think will be faithful, treat you right, respect you etc?
Question -: do these guys know each other by the way? This all sounds pretty weird to have 3 guys who know each other vying for your affection..if they know each other could it be a prank? You know how guys can be sometimes.
I wish you luck with this....just think of what you want in a partner and see how best fits that bill....sounds a bit clincal....but you do have a choice of 3..narrow it down.
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