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writes:Hi, my girlfriend and I just had our first year anniversary, before that she was in Japan for three weeks and I had to make the plans for our first year which I did even though I had exams on. 2 days before our first year she got a call to come into work and she accepted! So on our first year she went to work. I feel so angry about this and I've already talked to her but it's still there I dont know what to do.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (1 February 2009):
Did she know that you had things planned?
If she didn't think it was anything more than a meal in the evening then going to work for the extra cash might have just made sense.
You don't say what happened when you talked about it. You just have to try and calm down and let her make it up to you.
See if she wants to do something next weekend instead and let her book a nice restaurant etc.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, ellababesx +, writes (31 January 2009):
 Did you know how important it was to get into work at that perticular time? Do you know why she had to come into work?
Make sure you know the whole story before you start stressing out over things that are more important than you thought.
Make sure she knows how upset this has made you feel and tell her that maybe next time you feel that abit more effort should have been made.
Because you and her didn't do anything on the special day why not surprise her by booking a table at a resturant or going somewhere speical next week or something? Some people do this when thier anniversary date was on a busy day or was canceled. After your surprise date, your girlfriend should hopefully have a good time and it will remind herself that it is important to have a good time and celebrate a years worth of happiness! :)
Good luck!
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reader, Emajayne  +, writes (31 January 2009):
 just take some deep breaths and calm down. Sometimes life can't always go as planned. Tell her how u feel calmly using "when u do (insert) i feel (insert)" and stress how important it was for u to celebrate ur first year. u have every right to be mad but she also is dedicated to work and u have to respect that, like she needs to respect ur efforts at planning ur celebrations AND writing exams.
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