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writes:Hey people.My story is that is a ex of mine who i feel for is a real head messer.She has model looks but messed me about big time when we where together,she lied to me all the time and one week she would be nice the next nasty as hell to me.i loved this girl and she told me she loved me at the time.I always treated her right and good because thats what i do with anyone im with,the sex was amazing also which god i miss. Anyways its been over a while and it really messed with my head for a while there because she would tell me to stay away from her and call me a freak,the next week she would be texting me.2weeks ago she came to see me the next few days after that she f.... me off and told me she had a bf and to stay away again(which i did no contact,moved on) anyway on sat past she calls me to ask how i am we have a 5min conversation then thats it,on sat nite she texts me to see what im at,and then says she wants to see me.I have heard nothing from her since so im thinking now is that it?This is really messing me about and i know the best thing is for me to move on but god i really like this girl(i dont know why) and i just want your advice on this?
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reader, rossacelt +, writes (27 July 2010):
rossacelt is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey thanks for your advice anoyomus.I know where you are coming from but she is with a new guy and she told me that a few wks ago,thats why i left it and then she came back in contact,you should have seen the abuse i used to get for contacting her,her routine is fuck me off then come back again steady and i let her.I do love her in someway but to be honest i shouldnt that girl dosent give a shite.
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reader, Advice_man  +, writes (27 July 2010):
 This girl is the devil in disguise! Stay away from her!! All she needs is attention, she always looks for you when no one else is around to tolerate her sick games and bad attitude. For your sake, erase her number and erase her from your life, only then you will find peace within. She knows you are always available to "toy" with. You give her the right to play with you. Ignore her and her fake signs of love! Girls who truly love don't act like this!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2010): It ways takes two to Tango. I done the exact same thing to my recent now ex. The reason being he was never there,he didn't make an effort and never wanted to talk about things because he always clammed up! Im crazy in love with my ex and i know he feels the same,just hes got bigger things on his mind to worry about then how i feel right? guess what,thats most probly the exact thing your ex is thinking! Your mind f***ing eachother! Pick up the phone and talk to her
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reader, rossacelt +, writes (27 July 2010):
rossacelt is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNice girl??Well she can be but most of the time she is nasty and wicked(i know deep down she can be nice though),but do nice people tell you they are pregnant when they are not?is that nice?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2010): Haha if you don't have the guts to ignore her enjoy being played! Yuou must be desperatre, she has u exactly the way she wants you.
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reader, rossacelt +, writes (27 July 2010):
rossacelt is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI wish i could ignore her,i really do but i feel like im being a s.... if i do this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2010): I have the best advice anyone can give you... I'm guessing your a "nice guy" and her new bf is a bit of a "bad lad".
I'm guessing you treated her like a princess and she was nice 1 minute and nasty the next. I'm guessing that when you were together you were the one who made all the effort and she was the one who never made the effort with you and that you did most the running round after her. and please dont be offended but i guessing you were well and truley under the thumb?!
I know this because i was one of these girls.
The reason you still like her is because she may have messed with your head but she is still a nice girl like myself and you fell for her really bad! But if this girl is like me im guessing she likes the treat 'em mean keep 'em keen type and you arn't like that. Your ex will only contact you when she misses the loving attention she used to get from you and what she doesnt get from anyone else. She knows she has you wrapped round her little finger and im not trying to make you feel sorry for her because she doesnt deserve any sympathy but i think tht she is probably finding it hard to let you go because of how good you made her feel about herself. You need to ignore her calls and txts and give her no reason to think your still interested because aslong as she thinks you like her she will keep contacting you out the blue whenever she needs an ego boost! Please dont be too upset over her, it would never work for you both as your not what each other needs! :( I'm sorry and hope you find a nice girl that you deserve!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2010): Gosh she's bad news who cares how good looking she is. She is messing wiht your head and you are letting it happen.
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (27 July 2010):
Ever put your hand on a hot stove?? The smart thing to do is put your hand on it again right? Oh no wait, that didn't burn to the bone, let's try again.
You must love pain, because you keep going back for more. I don't care how sexy, beautiful, and dreaming pain is...Pain is pain.
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