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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:My best friend have obvious feelings for my partner!!!!I have seriously noticed on numerous occasions that my best girlfriend has feelings for my partner. We are a serious couple and we want to get married etc. Lately say 1 month back my so called g/f has been giving looks, saying inappropriate things like I love ... and I asked what do you actually mean by that...she brushed it off and said not in that way....I am like whatever. I had the chat with my partner as I broke down. This gave me flashbacks of my previous relationships and brought back some serious bad thoughts and feelings. I automatically didn't know who or what to trust...have I missed something here...has he been giving out signals ...etc... I work with this girl mind you on an everyday basis. So I haven't had an opportunity to tell her to get the hell out of our lives as I would jepordise my job. My partner said he doesn't want anyone but me and that he doesn't want to see this g/f of mine ever again. We went on holiday the 3 of us not long ago and my partner did admit that they had heaps closer as they have been chatting away etc.... that just made me sick to my stomach. I do believe that this is somehow my own fault for letting them get so close. I don't know what to do/ how to handle the situation as I work with her.Any advice would be much appreciated!Thanks
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (27 July 2010):
You let them get closer how? You said "honey, please get close to my g/f, please. That would be great." Your g/f sees how happy you are making your man, and she wish it was her doing it. Your b/f loves the attention, simply.
I say you get in there and flirt just as hard or harder. You may lose a man, but never lose self esteem because of another person. Hey, you are woman too, go your thing.
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reader, neadie winters  +, writes (27 July 2010):
okay okay calm down she's a bitch and jealous of you. she wants what you have and is your husband to be supportive of you you know men can't see anything even when its right under their noses set her up on a date with someone. if she gets insulted say it straight out i know your jealous but he my guy and i love him so back the f**k off. is she like a best friend or one of many do you really want her around cn you do without.
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