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female
age
30-35,
*mandanash
writes: How do I simply stop caring about what my ex does and how he lives his life now? I can't help but sometimes check out his facebook and see who he's talking too and what he's up to, which I am trying to stop. How do I stop caring about everything so I won't want to check to see what he's up to, and keep wondering if i ever cross his mind?
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (27 July 2010):
Get off the computer, and get back out there with friends. Start a new hobby, like cooking or writing or anything that prevents you from being tempted to go on the computer. Meet new men. Anything. Just don't sit there on a computer hoping he will think about you. He's an ex, and the truth is he probably doesn't. You need to accept he's gone, get out there and live more life.
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reader, cocoqueen88 +, writes (27 July 2010):
Just pick up a hobby or start meeting other people. Sooner or later you'll find that you'll become less interested.
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reader, BrownWolf +, writes (27 July 2010):
What has it done for you? Do you feel better when you do it? Does it make your heart jump for joy?
All that time you are spending checking up on your ex, could have been spent checking out a new guy to replace your ex.
Wasting time on the pass, is like driving backwards with your eye closed. You get nowhere fast.
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