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I have been through a lot, but lately i think ive learned to accept myself who i am, which to be honest not doing that was probably creating a lot of my problems in the first place:)
i love sports, used to sprint for my bourough, play basketball for the school team and am a black belt in taekwondo,
i like to read, although i dont do it as much as i used to:S and i luv writting, so hoping to be an author wen i grow up;) There are a few other things i would consider doing, but thats really my main passion.
I am here because ive had probelems before which ive needed help on, so i wanna return the favour:) |
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We just broke up. She was my life! Help me!
Q. Me and my girlfriend just broke up. We are 15 people say thats too young but i dont think so. She said we are very different and she has exams soon and it will be too difficult. I dont know what to do, she was my life. ...
A. 19 April 2009: hi, mate im your age too and have been through things like this so hopefully i can relate to your situation.
The truth is when you have a long relationship at this point in your life and it dosnt work out it does literally feel like its the wors... (read in full...)
Should I go and visit my online b/f in the USA?
Q. i meet my online boyfriend 2 years and half ago. untill now we are still regularly communicating. chatting, texting but he doesnt call me cos he always worry about his phone bill. i insist him to come and visit so we could meet but he always want...
A. 19 April 2009: I am not sure, it sounds a little suspicious. He wont let you hear his voice and wont go to your country. I would be very careful, through texts and chatting he can pretend to be whoever he wants to be and sculpt any charector that appeals to you. ... (read in full...)
I have sexual feelings for my cousin's sister
Q. i am 24 year working guy. from last one month i have feelings for my cousin sister (my father's sister daughter). she is 22 studying in college.i want to do oral sex with her.we talked on phone frankly as a friend. i dont know what she think abt ...
A. 19 April 2009: dont liten to the first answer on here mate.
To be honest i do not think it is legal to do what you are thinking.
You should just try to let it go, eventually you will meet someone that you will connect with. It seems you only have sexual desires ... (read in full...)
Should I stay with him? This is more emotion that I can process...
Q. i am 17 and have/had a boyfriend before he took a gap year and moved to mexico, we had only been going out 4 months before he left but we had gotten so close that it really was heart breaking, i was a mess for a while and even though we had agreed ...
A. 19 April 2009: just thinking about it, the old mate of yours changed when he was around you thats how much of an influence you had on him, he was not completely annoyed because you were confussed about your feelings with your ex and he is giving you space to ... (read in full...)
Should I wonder if she is cheating again or should I trust her?
Q. My girlfriend went out on me with her ex for 1 month before we moved into our apartment. I recently found out she had been looking at his myspace profile. I asked her why and she said she just wanted to see how he was doing. Should I wonder if she ...
A. 19 April 2009: If you feel that you and her are in a strong relationship and you really love her, I would trust her. something as meaningless as looking at his myspace profile is nothing to cause problems about. Have a talk with her about how she feels and how you ... (read in full...)
The adults on this site are so annoying!!!
Q. God, can I just say. Adults on this site are so annoying. I am 13. I haven't asked any... I dunno, sex related questions personally. But looking at the responses for people who are 13 and having sex issues like that girl with the vibrator ect. You ...
A. 19 April 2009: hey:) im 15 so i am from your generation by the way. Anyway im just saying people come on here asking for advice, they know there going to get adults responding to them, otherwise they could just ask there mates at school. The kids on here need ... (read in full...)
I've asked my ex to help me get over him how can he help?
Q. My ex knows I still have feelings for him, but he doesn't see me in that way more like a sister. He admitted when we were together he only saw me as a good close friend, not a gf so he held back and never kissed me he said it didn't feel right. This ...
A. 19 April 2009: believe me, i broke up with a girl but we were still best mates and i felt the same about her because we were still talking like we used to, only thing was we werent going out. took me longer then a year to get over her because of that. you just ... (read in full...)
Why am I not losing weight?
Q. I'm not sure if anyone can help.. but about 2 months ago I started a diet. Reason why? I am 5"2 and I (did) weigh 11 stone 10 pounds. (164 lbs) which is around 1 stone overweight (14 lbs) for my height. I decided to go on weight watchers diet sp...
A. 18 April 2009: the best thing for you to do to lose weight is spinning classes, or if not that interval training.
interval training basically means that, say if your on a treadmill you will run one minute fast one minute slow. It builds your hart muscle since it h... (read in full...)
If I tell my dad then I lose my mum and my sister... What do I do???
Q. Very tricky problem! My boyfriend of 2 years recently went to pick my younger sister up from school (she is in year 11) it was after hockey practice and she wasn't at the front of the gates like usual so he went inside towards the all weather pitch ...
A. 18 April 2009: hey.
tbh there is not much you can do. If you get involved to much all you are going to do is strain the relationship between you and your sister and shes going to become more and more distant from you. You can give her advice, influence her down... (read in full...)
I've asked my ex to help me get over him how can he help?
Q. My ex knows I still have feelings for him, but he doesn't see me in that way more like a sister. He admitted when we were together he only saw me as a good close friend, not a gf so he held back and never kissed me he said it didn't feel right. This ...
A. 18 April 2009: truth is it just takes time. You may never actually get over him completely since you didnt have a harsh brake up, but eventually you will learn to get past him. because your still friends its much more harder to get passed those feelings, and ... (read in full...)
I can't bear to spend my life in USA. I know in my heart I don't belong...
Q. This question isn't exactly about a boy/girl relationship, but my heart IS breaking, and I really need answers, and as an aunt myself, I've given so much so please let this technicality slide. If there is someone out there who can help me, I'll ...
A. 18 April 2009: hey, um not really sure what your asking, weather you should go to spain? or weather it would be possible for you to go?
Anyway, sorry for my slight stupidity lol:) but if you say you want to go spain, then go.
if you dont go you will probably... (read in full...)
He told me he'll never change... does that mean he doesn't love me?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for like 9 months. I love him so much but we always fight, I know fighting is normal but not all the time.. he has a really bad temper and he gets mad for everything and he always causes it. I don't know why he does ...
A. 13 April 2009: It dosn't look like you have a healthy relationship. When your explaining about your problems you said he causes all of them and you dodnt do anything. Well that shows the problem, both of you are failing to see it from the others point of view and ... (read in full...)
I'm a 16 year old female and I really want to lose my virginity.
Q. I'm a 16 year old female and I really want to lose my virginity. My mates go on about sex all the time. They say how good it is and how much they enjoy it. When I'm thinking about loosing my virginity I feel confident but when I nearly did it with ...
A. 13 April 2009: I would really think about this before you go ahead. I wouldnt have sex to solve any self conscious issues you have about yourself, or because your friends keep talking about how great it is. If you use sex as a means to overcoming issues with self ... (read in full...)
Do I make my teachers nervous
Q. Lately I've been noticing one of my teachers seems to be acting differently. In the beginning of the year, he would constantly be staring at me when teaching, (which made me feel uncomfortable at times), but now he's looking away if he catches me ...
A. 14 December 2008: hey:)
well, it dosnt seem like you have any feelings for him, am i right?
i would just keep this out of your mind unless he dose anything. mabye tell a friend so you have someone to back you up if he tries something weird.
remember if you ever ... (read in full...)
Should I leave her as I don't feel she wants to commit to me? (She has a boyfriend already)
Q. I've been seeing this girl for almost 2 years. We eventually fell in love and gotten personal but only in private because she still has a boyfriend. I wanna know if she truly loves me because she can't seem to leave her boyfriend in fear that I ...
A. 7 December 2008: let her know how you feel, but dont push her into making a decision.
let her realise how scared she is of losing you, and she should make the decision to leave her boyfriend, or regret losing you. you shouldnt be waiting for her for this long... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant and my partner has started acting really weird, what is going on here?
Q. I am 3 months pregnant and confused. I have been with my partner for 5 years, he is 23 and i am 21. We broke up over a year ago then got back together within 6 months. Recentley he's been acting strange. He will say he'll meet me then will let me ...
A. 30 November 2008: He sounds quite scared..
remember youve just told him your pregnanet.. he is gonna have a little kid, thats a lot of responsibility and its going to change both of your lives for the next 18 years.
Youve put something like that on him, and although... (read in full...)
I'm so skinny and I hate it! What can I do to gain some weight?
Q. Im so skinny and i hate it. Im a 15 year old girl, 5ft4, and weigh about 6stones 9pounds. I hate being soooo skinny. I eat sooo much and im stil the skiny stik i alwayz have been. People can make such horible comments. 1)Erghhh, your arms a...
A. 25 November 2008: you just have t kind of body, i know how it is i have it to so it was hard for me to put on muscle for me but i found methods and im sure you can too. just eat a lot, and as much as you can. eat every 3 hours, which is like 6 times a day and eat a ... (read in full...)
I can't seem to get my dream Aussie out of my mind! Help!
Q. Ello all, i know this isnt one of you run of the mill questions but im just curious if this has happened to anyone else as its a first for me and has left me confused all day!! well its about a dream really, ill explain... this dream involved a man ...
A. 23 November 2008: lol yeah ive had one or two dreams like this two:)
not really sure exactly why they happen.. mabye if you havnt been in a relationshio for a while and youve been thinking about it your dream person etc your mind will create it.
lol check if the p... (read in full...)
I do not know what to do to prove myself.
Q. Over the period of 3 years or so I was talking to a guy (lets call him Bob) I met online through a band. We had always wanted to meet but we didn't until this August when he came in from Iraq on leave. While he was here I met his best friend of 13 ...
A. 19 November 2008: Before you where close with the bob right? thats why you felt the way you did about him, Fred should understand that you werent as close with him then but as you got to know him more, youve relised that he much more important then the Bob, and your ... (read in full...)
His daughter calls another man "daddy".
Q. Hey I’m Jon 18 years old. This questions actually about my older brother he had a baby girl "Chloe" with his ex wife 2 years ago and broke up with her about a year ago (I'm not sure of the details my brother normally goes to his friends not family ...
A. 19 November 2008: Talk to him, make him realise that no matter what, he is that girl's father, dosnt matter how much another man might be there, he can never take that away from your brother. This other guy can walk away at any minute, he cant, also if you still ... (read in full...)
I'm happy without a boyfriend, so why is it always on my mind?
Q. Okay, basically, I'm EXTREMELY confused with myself. Honestly, I'm 15 years old, and have never had a boyfriend. Usually I am happy with this, I really don't care whether I have a boyfriend, and can be happy without one. I have my GCSEs comi...
A. 16 November 2008: Hey, being a 15 year old guy i hope i can help lol.
Ive been out with a few people and unless you connect well, there is no point at all, its always gonna end badly.
I think its better if you wait, you shouldnt settle for anyone so unless you have... (read in full...)
He's creative and good hearted but slow, should I endure or move on?
Q. My boyfriend is a simple and sweet guy with a beautiful heart. We've been dating a few months and up 'til now have had a great time together and shown each other a lot of love. We're goofy together and laugh a lot -- in some ways he's got a ...
A. 16 November 2008: Its up to you, im not sure anyone can really answer this without being in your situation.
You have to make a choice, does his simple mindidness really eclipse his affection for you, and your obvious love for him?
Many women come on here telling ... (read in full...)
Best aftershaves and perfumes???
Q. Hello, quick question. Girls, which (if any) (fairly cheap) colognes do you like the best? Guys, what do you think is best? I know it's not going to suddenly make all the girls in my school attracted to me, but I like to smell good. It creates a ...
A. 16 November 2008: calvin klein MAN - i own it and i really like it, or armani code. Whichever there both realy good... (read in full...)
My husband has always had porn in his life and I'm aggravated and tired.
Q. i'm tired and confused and need help. i've been married for 15 years, my husband has always had porn in his life since i've been with him, everytime i find it i cry i get furious and he says he'll stop and does for maybe a week or 2 till i find ...
A. 16 November 2008: im sorry to hear that:(
ending 15 years of marridge is really hard, but you really did deserve better things, and he was only making you have low self confidence, so because of that im glad you've made this decision.
good luck with everythi... (read in full...)
My husband has always had porn in his life and I'm aggravated and tired.
Q. i'm tired and confused and need help. i've been married for 15 years, my husband has always had porn in his life since i've been with him, everytime i find it i cry i get furious and he says he'll stop and does for maybe a week or 2 till i find ...
A. 15 November 2008: im sorry i didnt realise that he acted like that, my answer was only based around the infomation you have given me, since i am not you i cant understand how he feels or your relationship with him. when i asked if he showed he loved you through ... (read in full...)
Do I stop talking to him altogether?
Q. We were together for months but he told me he was too busy with school and work. I said that I wasnt going to do it anymore without a proper relationship and he asked me to be his girlfriend. A week later, he told me that his grades were too low and ...
A. 14 November 2008: It dosnt sound like he is that good at relationships, Romantic ones as well as friendships. The fact that he thought you were close when you werent, and that hes always running away from convosations shows his distance to other people. Have you ever ... (read in full...)
My husband has always had porn in his life and I'm aggravated and tired.
Q. i'm tired and confused and need help. i've been married for 15 years, my husband has always had porn in his life since i've been with him, everytime i find it i cry i get furious and he says he'll stop and does for maybe a week or 2 till i find ...
A. 14 November 2008: You and your husband need to sort this out. He has an addiction which he wil find very hard to give up, once you start it is like trying to stop smoking. You need to talk with him, ask him what you are not giving him, what these magazines are, but ... (read in full...)
I found sexy girls stripping from "Youtube" on his computer!
Q. I found online "you tube" videos of sexy girls stripping, dancing around and what not in my husband's history on his computer. So I confronted him and at first he was like well I left my IPOD in the car and went on "You Tube" to listen to music and ...
A. 14 November 2008: to be honest you dont know. more and more every generation becomes rapped around porn as it becomes more accesible. I think you need to confront your husband and ask him what he feels he is not getting from you, what the videos on youtube are giving ... (read in full...)
Should I make a move on halloween?
Q. Theres this girl my best friend since like 2006.... we always hang out together talk on msn. We both have boyfriends (we go threw them very fast) She's very pretty, I've grown so close to her. We always call each other sisters. The point is i ...
A. 24 October 2007: heya. are you sure she feels the same way? most girls are close at this age, exactly how you described, id be careful not to ruin your friendship with her... (read in full...)
How can I find out her feelings, without ruining our friendship?
Q. I've recently become more and more attracted to a close friend of mine. I'm 21 but she's 34. She's single and we always get on very well when we're together but I want to spend time with her as more than friends. How can I find out if she feels the ...
A. 23 October 2007: ask her out, only way she will willingly admit she likes you unless she feels verry strong about you... (read in full...)
This isn't really a relationship question, but please help me... My daughter is hearing voices at night...
Q. Im sorry this isnt a relationship question....its about my 9 year old daughter.......each night when she goes to sleep she is hearing voices and she cannot quieten them....i believe but am not sure that they are spirit but this is distressing her ...
A. 22 October 2007: hi, i would say that.. you need to consult a profesional with something like this, unless we have some phychiatrists, or children specialists on this site that come across your question, im not sure we can help much.
x... (read in full...)
I've fallen for a guy in the sixth form, but I don't want to compromise our friendship. What can I do?
Q. I'm 15 and have fallen with one of my guy mates who is in the sixth form in my school- he is 17. I am completely and utterly in love with him and its so bad it actually aches inside. I know this sounds dramatic and your proberly thinking this is ...
A. 22 October 2007: heya=]
lol im your age and ma friend had a problem like this as well so i might have some helpful tips on this.
ok the first thing is, if you really really like him, and you cant stand the thought of being without him. have conversations with him... (read in full...)
He touched my bum - does that mean he likes me?
Q. i know this sounds an odd question but ive known this guy for over a year and the past few months hes alway talking about wanting to sleep with me in front of my face and in front of others to which i find really strange that i just laugh it off. he ...
A. 22 October 2007: heya,
um do u mean that the guy who apparently likes you is getting married?
if so.. i would be very careful. dont do anything with him, chances are its not a relationship he wants, just a little fling. someone who really liked you, and was gett... (read in full...)
Am I just worrying or jealous for no reason?
Q. Hi, I am 17, and my girlfriend is 18. We have been going out for 2 months now, and we have had few arguements even though we love each other alot and know it can work. Basically, what bothers me is shes really close with her boy mates, infact all ...
A. 21 October 2007: hi, um this girl is not alright if she has slit her wrist. ive been involved in this situation to, do not get tied up because you feel guilty, or two involved. get out when you can. sorry to say that but you dont want to be dragged down like that w... (read in full...)
Am I getting the wrong end of the stick?
Q. Hi, There's a girl (j) I work with who's well to say the least, so beautiful and has a lovely personality, we both work for a communications company and I've been there since June and she's been there since febuary this year also, While i was on m...
A. 21 October 2007: id say its going pretty well! just be yourself and im sure itll be fine.... (read in full...)
I like two guys, which one should I choose?
Q. I have a problem with liking two guys. One I'll call John. I met John over two years ago and I've been dating him for two years. We have a great relationship and neither of us ever planned on us ever breaking up. The only problem is that he is in ...
A. 21 October 2007: heya=]
um you got to chose this on your own, look into your heat and try to realize which one really means a lot to you.
like the guy that can sing, hes gonna know that will help him with any girl, and hes kinda stealing you, but in a sneaky k... (read in full...)
My kids are out of control, and my wife and I fight over it.
Q. My 3 kids of ages 11, 9 and 6 are always fighting among themselves. I being the father have a little control. I mean when I am home they take notice of me, but for the mother they dont seem to listen her. I always ask them to behave but in worst ...
A. 20 October 2007: hi, dont worry about it all ids are like this=]
just remember why you wanted them andh old in there, eventually, when there older you wont want to let them go so engoy the time where there every wish and responsibility revolves around you, your gonn... (read in full...)
He can't have a meaningful discussion without disagreeing with me and then breaking off. What do you think of this situation?
Q. my fiance has broken off with me off and on more than 10times this year, and im emotionally stressed out. on top of this, he continues to threaten especially if i comment on something he doent like. once, i asked him if he is having some inte...
A. 20 October 2007: heya,
um it sounds like.. this guy is very overpowering.. is he?
if you feel safe in the relationship then ok.. but if you feel a litte bit worried, weather that he is doing anything to you. or even if you feel that your words arent being heard. i... (read in full...)
I have a phobia about letting him see my vagina. How can I get over this?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been hitting on 8 months, but i'm too self-concious to let him see my vagina, we have sex often enough but i dont let him see it. how can i get over it, its like a phobia, i shake and go insane if he tries to go near it!...
A. 20 October 2007: heya b=]
um.. i think that this is something that you will worry about now but not later in your life.
if you go along with it, everytime you do it it will get better untill eventually, you wont even think about it=]
there mite be a reason why y... (read in full...)
Do I tell him, even though he has a girlfriend?
Q. I like this guy and ive liked him for a while. and he was single and we were flirting alot and hangin out like 4 times a week. but i never was brave enough to ask him out. now he has a girlfriend. and i dont know what to do. i broke up with my ex ...
A. 20 October 2007: chanches are he will be single soon=] lol most relationships in teenage years dont stay strong for to long.
so dont do anything that might jepordize your relationship with him already, wait.
good luck, x... (read in full...)
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