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writes:Hi, I am 17, and my girlfriend is 18. We have been going out for 2 months now, and we have had few arguements even though we love each other alot and know it can work. Basically, what bothers me is shes really close with her boy mates, infact all her mates are boys, and shes kind of flirty with them, especially when she drinks. her boy mates call her flirty names, put their arms round her, kiss her and that makes me mad. I dont have a go at her but i try to make her understand i love her so much i and what she does bothers me, and what bothers me more is she doesnt do anything to make it better. But in the end i always trust her, but its not going good for me, if i did something like that she'd be mad! What should I do, am i just worrying/being jealous for no reason? Or is this a reason to break up? I tried break up before but she slit her wrist!Many regards.
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reader, Somethingeasy  +, writes (21 October 2007):
 You need to get rid of this girl, she is only going to add to your distruction. You seem like a nice chap, but this girl sounds way too disturbed, let her go and you will find someone better.
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reader, dapone 1 +, writes (21 October 2007):
 Dear Anon
Yes i agree with the comments Blazee has made,she should not be emotional blackmailing you by slitting her wrist,if she loves you as much as she say, she would not be hurting you this way, because she is kissing and messing about with other lads this is a bad sign,it shows she does not love or care for you, you would be better finding some one who will not do these things to hurt you.
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reader, blazee +, writes (21 October 2007):
 hi, um this girl is not alright if she has slit her wrist.ive been involved in this situation to, do not get tied up because you feel guilty, or two involved. get out when you can.sorry to say that but you dont want to be dragged down like that when its not your fault. if she really did feel for you she should realize the fact you feel uncomftable with other boys kissing her and being around her all the time. and she shouldnt slit her wirsts, making you feel guilty just so you can be with her, shes not thinking about you shes thinking about herself. in other words she knows you would have broken up with her, and the only reason your with her is because she cut her writs.. and shes ok with it? she dont care, you should get out
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