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writes:We were together for months but he told me he was too busy with school and work. I said that I wasnt going to do it anymore without a proper relationship and he asked me to be his girlfriend. A week later, he told me that his grades were too low and he doesnt want a gf. He kept saying that he doesnt want to lose me and how cool and awesome I am. I said its not like we were friends before and he got upset cause I guess he thought we were. We have been "broken up" for over a month and last week he called just to say hi and told me that he really likes talking to me now and we should stay in touch. Yesterday, I called him even though I didnt really want to but I though if he values my friendship so much, then I should at least give him a chance. We talked for literally two minutes because he was "busy" as always. He told me that he would call me later and never did (he would do this a lot when we were together too). Should I tell him that he cant treat me like this and that he's walking a fine line with my friendship or should I just never talk to him again? I still have feelings for him but im slowly getting over it. Reply to this Question
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reader, blazee  +, writes (14 November 2008):
 It dosnt sound like he is that good at relationships, Romantic ones as well as friendships. The fact that he thought you were close when you werent, and that hes always running away from convosations shows his distance to other people. Have you ever had a long convosation with him? if so how many? if not a lot, then what i said before is probably why he cant hold a convo. I think you should talk to him, get him to stop sending mixed signals and see if he wants to fight for your friendship, dont completely give up on him but let him know how hes been acting and that if he keeps it up thats it
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