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We just broke up. She was my life! Help me!

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Question - (19 April 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 20 April 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *ounjack05 writes:

Me and my girlfriend just broke up. We are 15 people say thats too young but i dont think so. She said we are very different and she has exams soon and it will be too difficult. I dont know what to do, she was my life.

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A female reader, bootyboot United States +, writes (20 April 2009):

yeah, don't be too serious about relationships at this point in your life. it is like one out of a million couples that dated in high school who get married later on in life.

don't sweat it kid, there are other gals out there and you will meet he girl of your dreams one day. just be happy with yourself and don't feel like you NEED to be in a relationship because there is nothing sadder than a desperate guy.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2009):

Okay... Forget the too young part but seriously you have your whole life in head of you. So don't be scared to just be single, and find out what you really like and want, and just mingle, have lots of fun. Wait to you get 30 to worry about settling down for just any ol' somebody.

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A female reader, Miss Tj United Kingdom +, writes (19 April 2009):

I understand your situation as I have been in that position myself. However, I do agree with what other people have said about you being too young. This is the right age to meet lots of different people so settling down may not be the best decision.

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A male reader, blazee United Kingdom +, writes (19 April 2009):

blazee agony aunthi, mate im your age too and have been through things like this so hopefully i can relate to your situation.

The truth is when you have a long relationship at this point in your life and it dosnt work out it does literally feel like its the worst thing that could happen.

I am not doubting your ability to feel love just because of how young you are, because to be honest when your a teenager its the worst time for these kind off feelings.

Eventually with time you will get over her, it just feels so bad because its so new and raw. you will meet someoneelse, and even though it seems like she was your life now, believe me there is life after her. trick is time, eventually youll meet someoneelse that will make you feel the same way.

All the best

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (19 April 2009):

ArmyMedic agony auntWait till she has done her exams then see if she fancies getting back with you. Exam time is very stressful and having a clingy boyfriend isn't going to help with that stress. She needs time to herself, so she can revise and having you texting her, all day every day and wanting to spend every minute with her, is going to be counter productive.

She isn't your life, and don't you have exams too? Why not put your new free time in to getting decent grades!

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